When The New Girl Is Threatened

November 8, 2016

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  Dear Dj Chloe,

  First allow me to thank you first for reading my letter, I’m one of your fans. Isa ka hinahangaan ko dahil napaka strong mong babae at sana maambunan din ako kahit konti ng personalidad na meron ka. I’m 39 years old, single mom ako matagal na, isa lang ang anak ko. Four years ago nagkaboyfriend ako ng mas bata sa akin. That time 35 ako siya ay 26 naman. Things did not work out kasi masyado siyang possesive. Siguro dahil mas stable ako in terms of work and probably because alam niyang above all things anak ko ang priority ko . So to cut the story short dahil sa nakakapagod na away bati I decided to call it quits. Ako ang nakipag hiwalay sa kanya. Una ayaw niya but eventually pumayag na rin. He blocked me from all of his social media accounts. Eto na ngayon, all of a sudden someone sent me a message telling me na siya ang girlfriend ngayon and this girl is asking if he is still texting me or making contacts with me. I cannot believe na nananahimik ako pero eto’t iniimbistigahan ako. I decided to ignore the message, so seen lang siya. Should I block the girl? Thanks, Chloe. Your thoughts on this will be appreciated.

  Lira

  Dear Lira,

  Sadly, they haven’t found a cure yet for insecurity. :) It seems na malaki ang insecurity ng current girlfriend and there’s nothing you can do about it. To ignore and to keep ignoring is the best thing to do. Bakitt ka naman papatol sa ka-cheapan ng iba? Kung ‘di sila makamove-on sa’yo problema na nila ‘yun. You don’t have to block any of them. Why would you? Nakakahiya naman sa’yo kung popoproblemahin mo pa sila, ‘di ba? Hayaan mo na lang ikaw problemahin nila. Titigil din ‘yan ‘pag walang nakuhang reaksyon. :)

  

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