When You Say “Sorry” You Do Not Do It Again

November 17, 2016

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  Hi Ms. Chloe

  May ico-consult po sana ako sa inyo. As of the moment po kasi me and my boss is on silent mode? Kasi po my nagawa ako na hindi niya nagustuhan. That was about my work. Kundi daw niya i-check hindi daw ako naga-update. Aminado po ako na hindi lang ito ang unang beses na nagawa ko ‘to. Sa ngayon po hindi niya ‘ko kinakausap and ang huling salitang nasabi niya sa’kin kahapon is ‘wag ko daw muna siyang kausapin kasi naha-highblood siya sa’kin.

  Nabo-bother po kasi ako. Isang panggising na advice naman po (though nasermunan na ‘ko ng asawa ko na kasalanan ko naman daw kasi).

  Salamat po.

  Okay lang po kahit hindi ito mai-ere, ‘di naman catchy eh, hehehe. Basta lang po sana makapagreply kayo.

  Do not mention na lang po my name if ever man na maiere ito (assuming). ‘Di din po kasi ako sure kung mapapakinggan ko, bawal kasi magheadset sa company namin.

  Thanks po and God bless.

   

  Hi Sir!

  Minsan kasi pag medyo mababait ang mga bossing natin at hindi “bossing” ang dating nila sa’tin, we become too familiar and we get complacent. Even if they are our friends, we should always maintain boundaries and respect their position. They won’t be deputized by the management if the management thinks they are not cut out for their designations as managers and officers . Although may mga nasa position na tingin nati hindi sila dapat nandoon, wala naman tayong magagawa because they have been placed there, ‘di ba? A genuine apology is a changed behavior. Let it be a humbling experience for you . Forget it and move on but remember it enough to not do it again. Ako isa lang ang motto ko ‘pag dating sa trabaho eh kasi as long as I am committing mistakes (not the same mistakes ha) it means I am learning. So dapat matuto ka na sa pagkakamali. Because some mistakes are expensive sa parte ng mga kumpanya. May cost kumbaga. So my motto is shape up or ship out. Management won’t change for you. Up to you to adapt sa culture ng kompanya. If you can’t deliver ‘di ka pagpapasensyahan for life. Ako man eh, kukuha na lang ako ng highly trainable at gustong matuto. Kaysa pagtyagaan ko ang dati na malaki na ang ulo at ‘di matinong magtrabaho. No one is indispensable in this world. And we are only as good as our last performance.

  

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