The Key To Know Is To Ask

January 11, 2017

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  Good pm po, Ms. Chloe! Can I ask you some piece of advice? I am married already and an elementary teacher but then my marriage failed. Pero wala pa akong legal action na ginagawa like filing an annulment. Pero ‘di na kami nag-uusap ng mister ko kasi OFW siya.

  I met my high school classmate who happened to be my first love, who is still single at this time. We’re on chatting stage as of the moment at s’yempre may feelings kasi ako sa kanya kaya madali kaming nagkakaunawaan. Pero gusto niya ay magsettle down at magkaroon kami ng baby at gusto niya ng tahimik at masayang pamilya. Minsan he ignores my messages kasi sinasabi niyang ginagamit ko lang siya panakip-butas sa mister ko. Pero hindi po ‘yun ang true. Mahal ko pa rin siya kahit ‘di kami nagkaroon ng relasyon nu’ng high school kasi ‘di ko siya sinagot. Parang M.U. lang kami. Sa ngayon, gusto ko siya makasama habang buhay, ano po dapat kong gawin? I-let go ko siya? Or ipaglaban ko nararamdaman ko sa kanya?

  Okay lang po ba ang gagawin ko kahit teacher po ako? Makipaghiwalay sa mister ko at magsettle down dito sa first love ko?

  Ano po gagawin ko kung ayaw ako reply-an nitong guy? Minsan umaabot ng one week hindi niya ako i-chat. Okay lang po na ako na naman magmessage sa kanya kahit feeling ko ay nakakahiya na ginagawa ko? Please, I need your advice. Salamat po, DJ Chloe and God bless.

  Miss Leo

  Hi, Miss Leo!

  Mag-ano ba kayo ni first love? A0re you guys an item? Or chat mates? Do you have a relationship? Or you are assuming that it is the two of you, when nothing was made official between the two of you?

  He wants to settle down and start having a “happy family”? Did he tell you or told you that he wanted it with you?

  Maybe he is just trying to tell you about his plans. It may not necessarily mean na ikaw ang gusto niyang bigyan ng pamilya na siya ang padre.

  As you’ve said you two are just chatting. It seems to me wala naman kayo sa ngayon. So he can ignore you or he can give you time kapag gusto niya lang.

  Maybe, nag-aalangan din siya kasi married ka pa.

  If I were you asikasuhin mo muna maging officially hiwalay sa asawa mo, kahit naman ‘di ka pa annulled, at least talk to him and make things official. And then work on your annulment.

  Don’t settle muna. You will just complicate things.

  Teacher ka… I know you’re still human pero ‘di ba after our parents sa teachers tayo natututo ng tama at mali? Nagkamali ka na sa una, ‘wag kang padalos-dalos uli,t Ma’am.

  

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