“Just A Chat”

January 30, 2017

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  Hi, DJ Chloe!

  I need your advice, my husband is a seafarer and we have two kids. Ako kasi ang gumawa ng Facebook account niya last four yrs ago and thankful naman ako kasi ‘di niya binabago ‘yung password. Since alam ko ‘yung password minsan nahuhuli ko siyang may ka-chat na ibang girl tatlong beses na niyang ginawa ‘yun at ang lagi niyang reason sa akin chat lang ‘yun. Lately lang DJ Chloe, ganun ulit nahuli ko na naman. Hindi ko muna siya tinanong o hahayaan ko na lang ba? Do I need to advise him to change his password, mas mabuti na lang ba na hindi ko alam para hindi ako masasaktan? Thank you.

  Hello!

  Chat lang daw ‘yun, okay.

  Alam mo, misis, there are two things you can do:
  1. Ignore it and continue thinking and trusting him, leaving him to his own device or
  2 . Putting your feet down and letting him. Know even the simple chatting with other girls irritate you.
  Why? Can’t he chat with you? Don’t you give enough time talking to him online?

  ‘Yun ngang kasama mo na sa bahay nagkukulang pa rin kayo sa pag-uusap, ‘yan pang malayo?

  And these are the things that will really put your relationship to the test, the test of distance.

  Hindi kasi talaga dapat naghihiwalay ang mag-asawa. But what can we do, kailangan mag-abroad para sa “pamilya,” ‘di ba?

  The last part of your letter doesn’t seem to be “chat lang ‘yun.”

  Ikaw? Will you still be chatting with another guy and exchange pictures?

  If you are not comfortable anymore, say it to him.

  You can trust him all your life and pretend nothing is wrong or you can convince him to come home and make both ends meet.

  No amount of dollars or allotment can buy you peace of mind or a whole marriage/family.

  Hindi kita ginagatungan, although some might think I am, how sure are you na isa lang Facebook niya?

  Just my two cents, talk to him and tell him it bothers you a lot. It’s better you know dear, kaysa ‘di mo alam, iiwan or iniwan ka na pala.

  

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