Not For “Staying”

March 9, 2017

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  Good morning, DJ Chloe. Do not mention my name only. Please give him a chance to read ‘s story. I hurt too much, DJ Chloe. As I write the things I’m really tears. I’m the one who likes to break up because not healthy that the relationship we have. More often that we fight until those time that I have felt different. I was surprised by his behavior. He agreed instantly break without any formal closure. But why am I still, to this day, is not able to forget him.

  Yes sir, I would never be able magmove on. I admit I, I love him still. As a person who loves me ‘I do not like magpakamartyr people and impose myself have gone really well. I still check his Facebook profile but then turned privacy mode for friends ONLY. I’m just surprised, DJ Chloe know that he IKAKASAL. Friend my mom because she nagkakachat and sometimes we just talk but casual, kumustahan, not about my ex. He knew that I was the reason why I broke up and he understands. They had given him a last chat iinsist he go to his wedding. I pretend like nothing is wrong. But deep down in my heart, I am so wrecked. In just eight months we did nothing to him his lifetime partner. I wanted to go to see him for the last time but I know, DJ Chloe, that hurt me when I married him. The dream we both had, he kept the rest. What should I do it?

  Miss E

  Hi, E!

  Hindi naman talaga madaling mag move-on pero pwede at kayang gawin.

  If you can’t make big leaps then make baby step. It’s better than not trying.

  I cannot think of any reason as to why madali siyang nakamove-on, maybe ‘yan ‘yung reason why he agreed to breaking up with you without any struggle because there is someone else.
  If you don’t want to attend the wedding it’s okay, it would actually be awkward if you are there. Baka naman gusto ka lang torturing ng nanay niya.

  But on a serious note, things happen for a reason. And in time, you will know why you did not end up with him.

  For now, focus on making a better you, focus on being happy alone.

  We can be happy alone, only if we try.

  

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