When It’s Time To Let Go

May 4, 2017

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  Hi, DJ Chloe!

  I met this girl for a very long time ago and eventually na-fall na kami sa isa’t-isa hanggang dumating na kami sa point na we kissed, etc. And then inamin niya sa’kin na may boyfriend siya and nasaktan ako because nakuha niya na loob ko. Hanggang sa nagkalabuan na kami, then she chose her boyfriend over me (of course) wala na ‘kong karapatan doon. Ang nakakabother lang sa’kin is after one year of being stuck into her, bakit niya pinapalabas lagi na parang merong kami? Knowing na wala naman talaga because may boyfriend nga siya at nagbibigay lagi siya ng motibo na ayaw niya ‘ko mawala kahit may boyfriend siya. Nagseselos siya kapag may naik-kwento akong babae, etc.

  Ayoko na ng ganito. Nakabitin lang po ako at pwede niyang iwanan anytime. Matagal na ‘kong nagpasya na magmove on. About six months ago na. Pero siya, nagch-chat pa din and pinapakita niyang ayaw niya ‘ko mawala. Pero may boyfriend siya. Please help me, DJ Chloe. What shuould I do? Should I stop talking to her? Because, honestly, I can’t move on dahil nagiging ganoon siya. Lagi niyang kinukuha loob ko. Gusto ko nang mag move-on pero how po? Please help. Thanks in advance!

  Mr. F

  Mr. F!

  Wala kayong pinagkaiba nu’ng sender kahapon.

  Anyways, do you want to be in a relationship with someone who is “half-baked”?

  It is obvious that she is selfish. She wants you but she doesn’t want to let go of her boyfriend, na unfair para sa boyfriend niya because he thinks he is the only one but then there’s you.

  Kung ikaw naman si boyfriend niya, what would you feel if malaman mo na meron palang ibang gusto girlfriend mo? Payag ka bang masulutan?  Ikaw, okay lang din sa’yo manulot?

  Magulong usapan ‘yan. If you’re saying you have decided to move on, then by all means do yourself a favor, ‘wag mo na siyang kausapin. ‘Wag mo na siyang entertainin pa. If the boyfriend learns about this she can just pretend na mahaba ang hair niya at ikaw ang hahabol ng habol sa kanya. Ikaw pa masama.

  Let it go.

  

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