Let’s Meet, Have Sex, Then Let’s See…

June 9, 2017

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  Just hide my name by Tessie, I’m 37, single mom. To make the short story meron akong crush sa guy since I was high school. Nasa abroad po siya, single din siya. Sabi niya he’s not into relationship. Lagi kami nagcha-chat pero ako ‘yung unang kumakausap sa kanya. Sabi niya sa’kin magkikita kami pag-uwi niya galing abroad, OFW po siya. I think I already have feelings for him pero sa side niya I don’t know kasi he doesn’t even chat me or even kamusta man lang. Unless I chat him tsaka siya nagrereply but ‘yung siya talaga gagawa ng unang moves, ‘di po eh. I just need some advice, DJ Chloe. Should I go with my feelings or should I let go? Kasi I’m kinda confused. Sabi niya he wants to meet me muna para spend time together and have sex then that’s the time na malalaman niya kung pwde ba maging kami. Gusto ko kasi siya, DJ Chloe kaya medyo naguguluhan talaga ako.

  Thank you.

  Tessie

  Meet? Spend time together? Have sex? Then he decides if pwede kayo?

  You are 37, three years from now kwarenta ka na. And you’re buying this? You’re buying his reason?

  Unless you want to be a single mom of two??

  Kung isa lang anak mo baka madagdagan lang. You’re almost 40 to be too naive about his intentions for you. NO MAN WHO HAS A SANE MIND WOULD SUGGEST SEX FIRST BEFORE RELATIONSHIP. Buang ka ‘pag pumayag ka, neng.

  A man who has good intentions will never suggest things like this. Nagsisiguro na siya, gusto niya pa makaisa. And only desperate women would agree to this. Unless wala lang ‘yan sa’yo, okay lang sa’yo na may ganyang agreement?

  One more thing, ikaw laging nauuna makipagchat, magmessage?

  Ang lalaki kapag gusto ka talaga, nothing can stop him, makulit ‘yan at gagawa ‘yan ng paraan para ma-corner ka.

  If you feel na kailangan mo ng partner to fill the void in your life, you can always turn to God.

  Fall inlove with Him, and allow Him to love you. If God wills it for you to have a lifetime partner, He will send you someone you deserve. He will never send you someone like this guy.  So most likely alam mo na sino nagpadala ng lalaking ‘to?

  

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