True Love Is Loving The Unlovable

July 28, 2017

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  I’m one of your avid listeners po. Your advice to your letter senders are very real, walang halong kadramahan.

  I just wanted to share my story po. Hope that I can touch other lives too if given the chance that you can read my letter. Please hide my identity nalangpo. Pasensya na po DJ Chloe, medyo mahaba po, you may cut the story short po if necessary. Thank you

  I am married for 12 years now. No kids yet, maybe God has better plans for us because our medical results are all normal naman po.

  In year 2014, our marriage has gone through a DISASTER, as in disaster. I never thought na malalagpasan namin ‘yung pagsubok na ‘yun.

  It was mid-2014 when I observed that my husband had a big change. He comes home late with a groggy look and wakes up late in the morning. Comes out that he goes to work late na rin. I never thought of anything except that naisip ko may “other woman” siya. I became a nagger wife, I always get jealous thinking na may kahati na ako sa buhay niya. It was September 2014 when he admitted to me that he was addicted to “drug”. My world was shattered of the bad news. I never thought na magagawa niya ‘yun, because he is a very religious person and a family man. Because of my love for him, I kept the problem to myself, muntik na rin po akong mabaliw dahil naubos lahat ng savings namin. But I seek the help of his siblings and mother afterwards. They supported me to fight our battle. I never shared my problem to my family because for sure, they will insist na makipaghiwalay na ako sa asawa ko.

  During that time, nagalit ako sa Diyos. Naisip ko, bakit ako? I always go to church, I always pray and I always do good things to other people, bakit nangyari ‘yun? Nawalan ako ng tiwala sa Diyos, DJ Chloe, nagtampo ako sa Kanya. Tapos sumabay pa na-stroke ‘yung mother ko October 2014. I needed to go home because that is my mother’s life already, the woman who gave my life. I was so shattered, DJ Chloe (until now that I’m writing this letter, tumutulo po luha ko). I went home to the province to see my mom. One time, tulala ako naglakad-lakad sa city to freshen up and nag-iisip-isip, then parang may humila sa mga paako, napadpad ako sa isang church – PINK SISTERS. The solemnity of the place made me cry. I cried my heart out, DJ Chloe. I asked for forgiveness. I asked for His guidance and strength na sana malagpasan ko lahat. Paglabas ko ng simbahan, parang nag-iba na po ‘yung pakiramdam ko. FULL OF HOPE, FULL OF STRENGHT.

  To cut the story short, DJ Chloe, after my church prayer. Bumalik ako kay God. And as if everything went fall into place. My mom recovered from heart attack. I went back to Manila to take care of my husband naman. With all the spirit, DJ Chloe, I never left him. I never gave up on him kahit na may takot ako na baka mapatay nya ako because of his mind under drug influence and lagi niya ako minumura ‘pag ‘di ko siya mabigyan ng pang-bisyo niya. All those things tiniis ko po. I encouraged him na magbakasyon kami ng one month sa province, pumayag siya, dun na po nagsimula na makalimutan niya ‘yung bisyo niya. Hangang unti-unti na po niya nakalimutan ang masamang bisyo and up to now, he is a changed man na po for the better. He got promoted sa company nila and goes out of the country na po for official business and the best thing is nagbalik-loob na po siya kay God. We both go to church, we pray before we eat and sleep. AMEN to God.

  One time po my husband thanked me for helping him out of the darkest side of his life and for loving him endlessly. Now we are stronger in faith and in love, with God the center of our life po.

  The best things I’ve learned, never doubt the power of prayer and never question the works of God.

  Loving Wife

  Hi Loving Wife ,

  I am glad that you are both okay now. I guess you no longer need an advice, I am sharing your story on our page, to give hope to those who are going through their own storm.

  Marriage as I always say is not for the faint-hearted.  Marriage is two people who are determined to make things work, even when everything is doomed to be given up.

  Love is an endless act of forgiveness, and the decision to stay married for good no matter what.

  There is really nothing impossible with God.

  Keep the faith and keep on praying.

   

   

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