Girls’ Instincts Are True

September 12, 2017

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  Good morning. I want to hear your opinion especially ‘yung mga guys out there. I have this boyfriend na nakikita ko sa Instagram niya na puro babae at medyo ni-like niya ‘yung mga sexy body ng mga girls. Every time na nagcheck ako ng mga ni-like niya ganon lagi nakikita ko. I confronted him last night pero maayos naman ‘yung pagkakasabi ko. Sabi niya sa’kin, “Alangan namang mga lalake i-post ko”. Nainis ako sa sagot niya. Sabi ko sa kanya hindi pa ba enough ‘yung may nangyayari sa’tin? Mukang mababaw, ‘di ba? Pero sa’kin ang big deal. Am I not enough na ako lang? ‘Yung mga guys habitual na ba sa kanila ‘yun? Hindi ba sila na satisfied sa iisang babae lang? Eh kung mga babae gawin din sa kanila ‘yun, hindi ba sila maiinis? Hindi ko muna siya kinausap kasi nagpapalamig pa ‘ko ng ulo. I really appreciated those guys who will answer my questions.

  Thank you and God bless.

  Ms. Selosa

  Ms. Selosa,

  Most men, okay most men, am not saying all.

  Most men will not understand where you’re coming from. Some will say normal sa mga lalaki ‘yan. But what they don’t understand is the insecurity it gives their partners.

  Exactly what you said, hindi ka pa ba enough?

  And yes, hindi. Kasi you do not have the kind of body these “sexy girls” have who are picture and poster perfect. And I’m not saying it’s their fault that they look so perfect.

  It’s not also right to pressure yourself to look like them because even if you do get to be really sexy like them, still, you will never be enough to a man who doesn’t have any contentment.

  I don’t know. Maybe it’s a guy thing. Pero try mo din gawin ‘yan. Make him feel insecure and inadequate, magwawala ‘yan.

  Siguro para ‘di ka na lang mainis, magalit, mainsecure, and who knows what else this can make you feel, avoid looking at his social media accounts. If I were you, I’d block him so you won’t see what he’s doing and he won’t have any idea as well what’s going on in your account and who you’re friends with. J

  Tell him straight if it offends you. If he loves you he will and should understand, and will somehow do something about his behavior.

  Sometimes, people will only understand what and how you feel. If they also go through exactly the same thing that they made you feel.

  

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