Sometimes You Need To Step Back

November 21, 2017

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  Hi DJ Chloe!!!

  Gusto ko lang humingi ng advice. I am 35 years old and I have a relationship with older man which is annulled na and he’s not too old naman, he’s actually 52. We’ve been together for almost three years. And the problem is we’re not having sex because of his health problem. But I accept him for who he is and I truly understand what is the situation. I love him very much even though ‘di niya nabibigay ‘yung sex na tinatawag. Ngayon nkikipaghiwalay siya sa’kin dahil hindi na niya ko mapaligaya at ayaw niyang maging alagin in the future. I told him that I love him unconditionally. Pero masakit man nkikipaghiwalay na siya sa’kin. Hope mabigyan mo ako ng advice. Thank you. Regards to your show. God bless.

  Jean

  Hi Jean!

  At least, he is honest with you.

  If you really love him and you accept everything about him just like what you said then tell him. If it doesn’t change his mind then maybe he has reasons other than his health problem.

  He probably thinks bata ka pa and there is so much more to life for you rather than spend your whole life with him na para sa kanya eh aalagaan mo na lang siya and that he won’t make you happy in that area anymore.

  You should be thankful he thinks of you first before he thinks of himself.

  There’s nothing you can do if after exerting all efforts eh makipaghiwalay pa rin siya. You just have to accept it and let him go.

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