True Friends Stay In Times Of Trouble

November 23, 2017

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  I’m really a big fan of yours, sincerely, I started listening to Easy Rock few years back. Actually, this is not my own concern but I’m so bothered because my best friend’s hubby is obviously cheating on her. I’m proud that my best friend is a strong woman. She can handle the situation even if her hubby is having an affair again. They have kids and really a wonderful family but changes to place quickly. The happy family whom I’ve known before is no longer the same.

  I know it’s not my big problem but hope you can enlighten me on how I will help my BFF. Women’s intuition, I know. My BFF knew about it but she’s controlling her temper because she doesn’t want their kids to suffer and she’s finishing her post graduate studies. Tell me how can I help her. I’d love seeing them happy just like the old times. Friday till Sunday seems to be family day. But now things changed. Her hubby usually comes home late and the affection given to their kids became less and less. Yet he is a good provider. I’m super sad about what’s happening to them. I hope you can help me in this matter. Thanks and more power to your program. Please do not reveal my name here.

  Just call me Hidden.

  Hi!

  You said, “She can handle the situation even if her hubby is having an affair again.”  Sanay na pala siya eh. So she knows what to do and how to deal with it.

  The best thing you can do, since BFF mo siya, is to just be there for her and give her moral support, listen to her whenever she wants to talk about it.

  Wala ka namang magagawa kasi ‘di ka naman pwedeng makialam kasi buhay naman nilang mag asawa ‘yan and if she choose to just stay with him despite of what he’s doing eh that is her choice.

  Sabi mo nga good provider ang asawa at siya naman eh nag-aaral trying to finish her post grad studies. Eh baka ‘di niya pa kayang humiwalay o gumawa ng aksyon. Isa pa baka takot din siyang i-confront.

  Just be there for her as a friend that is what you can do.

  

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