Chase The New “Hello”

January 9, 2018

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  Avid listener ako ng Chloe’s Inbox, hindi man makapagcomment, pero madalas nagbabasa ako ng mg letters at lalong-lalo na ‘di ko pinapalampas ang mga payo mo.

  I decided to also write to you kasi nahihirapan na ako.

  I am in a relationship, or shall I say used to be in a relationship, with a guy who’s married already.

  Ako naman, matagal ng hiwalay sa naging asawa ko and hindi ko rin naman plinano na magkaron ng relasyon sa isang tulad niya, dala na rin lang siguro ng pag-iisa ko, kaya I fell for him.

  We have been secretly seeing each other for two (2) years, until recently, bigla na lang hindi na nagparamdam. Akala ko dahil pasko lang at busy sa family niya, which is naiintindihan ko naman. Kaya lang up to this time, hindi na siya nagreach out.

  I feel bad. I feel abandoned kasi I feel like I also deserve an explanation.

  Ano ba dapat kong gawin, DJ Chloe? Hayaan na lang or gumawa ng paraan para magkausap kami ng matapos naman kami sana ng maayos.

  Will appreciate if I get an advice from you.

  Thank you,

  Carol

   

  Hi Carol,

  Sabi mo nga, married, may sabit.

  Why not take this as a sign. As a way out provided to you by God para makalabas ka sa sitwasyon na kung sakali man mabunyag eh maaring ika kumplika ng buhay mo, ‘di ba?

  I am sure you have kids of your own. Why not focus on them instead?

  Dalawa lang naman nakikita kong rason jan eh kung bakit hindi na nag paramdam. Una, baka nakapag-isip at naisipang magbago na at magpakabait at mag focus sa asawa at mga anak niya. Pangalawa, baka may bago na. ? Pangatlo, baka nagkasakit o namatay, ‘wag naman sana. ?

  But nevertheless, take this as an opportunity for you to do what is right and to correct a mistake and to change for good.

  You know, if you are brave enough to say goodbye to this wrong kind of relationship, life will reward you with a new hello.

  So, cheers! Kasi makakalabas ka na sa isang pagkakamali. Hayaan mo na, ‘wag ka ng gumawa ng paraan baka mamaya ikasama mo pa.

  

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