Mistakes Are Mistakes Regardless Of Whatever

February 19, 2018

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  Have a great day DJ Chloe,

  This is my second chance to confess my darkest secret DJ Chloe. This is J.L. ako nga pala ‘yung sender na naghingi ng advice to you about my tita. I have a big problem by now, DJ Chloe. My problem is about my Tita. In love ako sa tita ko na pinsan ng nanay ko. May asawa siya pero minahal ko pa din siya. Umuwi sila galing US almost 1 week pa lang sila sa dito at sobrang saya ko dahil sa bahay namin sila magstay almost three months. DJ, sobrang saya ko dahil nandito na naman sila. I know it’s very wrong for me to love her. But I can’t stop loving her! Hanggang dumating sa point na hindi ko na mapigil ang feelings ko. Isang gabi umuwi akong lasing at siya ang nagbukas ng pinto. Tulog nang lahat. Pag-open nya ng pinto nagkatitigan kami, DJ Chloe. Hindi ko na natiis at hinalikan ko siya. Damang-dama ko na gusting-gusto niya din at may nangyari sa’min ng halos tatlong beses ng gabi na ‘yun. DJ, my problem is she’s my tita. I have a girlfriend. And she’s 50 and ako is 37. I know, DJ sobrang tigas ng ulo ko dahil ‘di ko sinunod payo mo dati. Hindi ko napigilan, DJ Chloe. At sa ngayon, gulong-gulo na ako. Inilihim namin ‘to at patuloy pa rin ang ginagawa naming alam kong mali. DJ, mahal na mahal ko siya. Sa ngayon, alam ko mali. Pero hindi ko siya maiwasan. Paulit-ulit kaming tumatago sa gabing kinakailangan namin ang bawat isa. DJ, ikaw lang napagsabihan ko kaya sa’yo lang ako ulit lumalapit. Please help. Thank you and more power!

  JL

  Dear JL,

  It seems that whatever naman I say or we say won’t be able to help you.

  Maybe at this point, sa sobrang guilt mo, you only wanted to vent out about it, but you don’t really intend to do something about it or even rectify your behavior. Because it seems to me that although you feel tremendously guilty about it, you are actually enjoying it.

  I cannot really say it’s love. I can surely say it’s lust, that you confuse with love.

  Love is not destructive.

  I do not know what to tell you so you’d stop what you’re doing. It’s only a choice only you have to make yourself.

  So now that you have achieved what you wanted, are you happy?

  

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