You Invited Trouble

March 16, 2018

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  Please hide my identity. Just call me Ms. L. Just want to share my story and want to hear any good advice. I’m 45 years old, married with three children who are all grown up now. Actually, my two (2) older boys are working na. Well my story is about my ex-boyfriend which I haven’t seen for almost 31 years and now living in the US. Same with me, he has his own family too. To begin po kasi one day habang I’m reading some comments in my friends’ post I just saw his account. Syempre out of excitement I sent a friend request to him. Then dun nagstart ang problem. We are actually chatting and calling every day, even ung fave ko na radio station tinanong niya kaya for sure nakikinig din siya dito. Well, to make it short, I’m falling for him which I know is not good. The question po is pano ko siya iiwasan without hurting his feelings? ‘Yung tipo ba na hndi halata na umiiwas ako sa kanya. Haha! Thanks po in advance and God bless.

  Ms. L,

  The excitement led to a friend request which led to connection again with him. And it led to chatting and calling. Now you want a stop? Why did you start in the first place? 45 na, teh. Para pa bang high school dapat ang peg? Well, can’t blame you baka matagal ka nang hindi pinapakilig ng asawa mo. I’m not being righteous here but sometimes a big time problem starts into something small. Malaman mo na lang disaster na. Now you want to put a stop? JUST STOP. Wala ng ka-charingan pa na ‘di dapat halata or what? The hell, you’re not actually even supposed to start anything in the first place. Sana nakuntento na lang sa hi and hello and that’s it.

  

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