When You Truly Trust Someone

June 11, 2018

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  I’m Margj, 27 years old and single. Well, avid listener mo ako, DJ. So, I decided na magmessage sa’yo, DJ. I met this guy six (6) months ago already. Isa siyang bokalista ng isang banda. Nakilala ko siya sa gig niya sa Batangas. Naging close kami, DJ. Magkasundo kaming dalawa. ‘Yung kada makita niya ako siya na ‘yung unang mag-aapproach sa’kin. ‘Yung hindi siya aalis hangga’t hindi siya nagpapaalam. Na-inlove ako sa kanya, DJ. Alam naman niya ‘yun at napag-uusapan na namin. The feeling is mutual. Hanggang siya nagme-message sa’kin ‘yung friend niyang babae, kwentuhan through chats and text kami nong babae. Hindi ko namamalayan na sinisiraan na ako ng babae kay guy. Ni hindi po niya ako kilala personally. Pinakeelaman ng babae lahat sa’min nu’ng guy. Pinagkasira niya kami DJ at naging back to zero lahat. The guy started na iwasan na ako at hindi kausapin. Hanggang sa kinausap ko siya, sabi niya hayaan ko na lang daw ‘yung naninira kasi wala naman ako ginagawang masama. Na mas okay sa tao ang may magandang ugali. Iniwasan niya ako, DJ Chloe. Inaway ko siya, DJ. Napagsalitaan ko siya ng masasakit. Na hindi siya magaling na singer. I know mali ako. I know sumobra ako, DJ. Sabi niya sa’kin, “Ganyan pala ugali mo, ngayon alam ko na.” Ano pong gagawin ko, DJ? Sana po matulungan mo ako.

  Nagpapasalamat,

  Marj

  Hi Marj,

  While it’s nice to have a lot of friends you don’t actually need a lot You only need a few that’s true to you. Sometimes people do not really want to be your friend, they only want to know you so that what they learn about you, they can use against you. Kaya you have to be careful who you let into your life. Si guy naman mababaw, naniwala dun sa girl na nanira sa’yo, so I don’t think he’s worth your time. At ikaw naman, ba’t naman kung ano-ano sinabi mo. The thing about words, once they’re out of our mouth, we can never take them back. Kaya always be careful with your words, you might have to eat them someday. Lesson learned, just move on from it but don’t forget the lesson you learned from it.

  

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