You can delete the messages but you can’t delete the betrayal

January 22, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe! Nagbabalik po ako para sa isang concern. Can you share your thoughts po about deletion of conversation lalo na sa couple? Is it a form of cheating? Gusto ko po sanang mai-discuss since very relevant naman po sa common issues ng couple nowadays. Personally, nags-struggle po kasi akong magtiwala ulit.

  Miss P

   

  Hi Miss P!

  If he’s erasing immediately after it’s sent or received, then this becomes suspicious. P’wede kasing sabihin na ayaw niya lang na puno ang inbox niya. But if the messages sits there for a few days, okay lang magdelete pero delete agad after mabasa or mag send ng messages, medyo nakakasuspetsa nga ‘yan.

  If you confront, definitely he’ll deny and he might even get upset. If you really want to know more, be tech savvy.

  Nasa sa’yo ‘yan, actually. Pwede mong pakialaman ang phone, now if it’s heavily locked with a password?? Well, hahahaha!

  Marami ng nabuking sa phone, thru texts, messenger and even emails.

  Sayang ang panahon mo dear sa kakasuspetsa, alamin mo na lang, kung pano diskarte mo na ‘yan.

  Or!!! Hayaan mo siya sa ginagawa niya and just be busy loving yourself.  Dedmahin mo na lang, papangit ka lang sa kaka-imbestiga! Concern yourself with things that will help you improve.

  Learn how to vlog, start a small business that will give you extra cash flow, learn how to cook and feed him well. Alam mo na, the way to a man’s heart daw is through his stomach. Try mo kung totoo. Paganda ka, lagi kang mabango, papayat ng konti para healthy ka. In short, FOCUS ON YOURSELF! LOVE YOURSELF MORE!

  Kiber na kung lagi siyang nakababad sa phone at laging nagde-delete, wala ka ng magagawa dyan. Ang tao kung magloloko, magloloko, ke bantayan mo o hindi.

  

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