Let the ex-girlfriend pick up her stuff

May 28, 2019

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  Avid follower here of your page and listener na rin. I make sure I get to listen to your show at work, at ‘pag on the road naman si DJ Sam ang kasama ko sa umaga.

  I’m writing you this letter kasi I just want to ask you about the sa behavior ng ex-girlfriend ko. When we broke up, she blocked me on all her social med accounts, pati sa phone niya nakablock din ako, so mga one month na kaming hindi nag-uusap after a bad break up. But recently she unblocked on Facebook, and then I received a message from her na gusto niyang kunin ‘yung ibang gamit niya na nasa akin, like USB, CD, and some clothes niya sa bahay kasi sometimes she sleeps in my place, she also wants to get all the things she gave me, shirts, pati necklace na binigay niya sa akin. What should I do? I’m willing naman na ibalik ang mga ‘yun sa kanya. Kahit parang napakachildish lang talaga, kasi kahit ako din may mga naibigay ako sa kanya but never in my thoughts na naisip kong bawiin. Paano ko kaya ibabalik sa kanya, DJ Chloe?

  Thanks,

  Gerald

  Hi Gerald,

  Pack all of her things in a nice box or bag, then tell her to get it from you, p’wede mong iwan sa kasama mo sa bahay for her to get it, or pag nandiyan na siya iplabas mo sa gate, iutos mo lang, ‘wag mo nang harapin. She unblocked you kasi gusto niya lang ‘yun makuha so there’s no sense na harapin pa siya. It’s really childish, kwentahan, bawian… haaaay…. pagnabigay na, wag nang bawiin, maliban kung engagement ring ‘yan, ibalik dapat dahil ‘di naman na kayo magpapakasal.

  

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