Choose your thoughts

May 29, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  Avid listener mo ako. This is not my real account. I’m Nicole, I’m 25 years old and I’m in a relationship for one (1) year now. Medyo naguguluhan lang po ako kasi I can’t get my ex-boyfriend out of my mind. I keep on thinking of him. 2014 pa nang maghiwalay kami at hanggang ngayon talagang naiisip ko siya. Pero sure ako sa sarili ko na mahal ko ang current boyfriend ko at siya ang nakikita ko sa future ko, since wala namang pag-asa kami ng ex ko dahil may asawa na siya though hindi kasal is technically mag-asawa pa rin sila. Am I cheating po ba sa current boyfriend ko? Thanks DJ Chloe and more power.

  Hi Nicole!

  If he just crosses your mind, but you don’t fantasize about him, I don’t think that’s emotional cheating. But if he crosses your mind too often then I guess that’s already something you should be worried about. Do you have unfinished business with him? What are your thoughts about him? There must be a reason why you keep thinking about him, and I believe it’s because you probably still have feelings for him? Ikaw lang naman nakakaalam niyan and if you believe it will harm your current relationship, I suggest you stop the moment you start thinking about him again. Kaya naman natin manduhan ang isip natin, ‘di ba? We can always choose our thoughts, right?

  

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