Your parents always got you

July 13, 2019

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  Hi po DJ Chloe,

  I’m your avid follower. Sana po give me advice sa problem ko. I’m working in a government office, dun ko nakilala ang present boyfriend ko. DJ Chloe, my main problem is binatang ama siya. And from the start accepted ko naman ang situation niya. Pero ang parents ko ang against sa relasyon namin. Tumiwalag na rin ako sa aming relihiyon. Problema ko po, nagkikita pa sila ng ex niya dahil every weekend pinapasyal niya anak niya kasama ang nanay. At nu’ng huli sinama niya pa sa Hong Kong. DJ Chloe, never pa niya ako naintroduce sa nanay at kapatid niya as girlfriend. Pangako niya papakasalan niya ako. Samantalang may connection pa sila ng ex. What shall I do? Hanggang kailan ako mag-aantay at magtitiis? Sana matulungan mo po ako, DJ Chloe. God bless.

  Hi Gurl!

  ‘Yun ang pinakamadaling gawin, mangako. You know if this man really cares for you, he will at least be careful with your feelings. It’s a bit sketchy to me na kailangan pang isama ang nanay sa Hong Kong, pero to give him the benefit of the doubt, baka may special needs ang bata at kailangan kasama ang ina…malay natin? Or baka nakiusap ang nanay na isama siya, I don’t know. Pero mukhang hindi cute. Magseselos at magdududa ka talaga. As I’ve said, if totoo siya sayo, dapat transparent siya. Wala naman masama sa binatang ama, pero sa tulad mong dalaga, medyo losing end ka talaga diyan. And dear, the mother of the child will always be in the picture, it’s something you will have to deal with for the rest of your life. And your parents? They’re just protecting you from this situation na sinasabi kong ide-deal mo for the rest of your life with him. Parents only want the best for their children, ‘yan ang alam ko.

  

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