Leave the problem to the people involved

July 24, 2019

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  Good evening madam,

  Kindly give me advice. As of the moment I’m working as a cook. My boss is the chef de cuisine of an Italian restaurant in one of the known hotel-resorts here in Pasay. He’s an Italian. I’m cooking for his daughter but right now she’s not here because of summer vacation. My concern is this, my other boss has another woman, his OJT. She’s 23 years old and every time na wala ang bata dito dinadala niya dito ‘yung girl. I know that’s his personal life but I’ve been there at mahirap maloko. The wife is based in Hong Kong a Ukrainian. Ganda niya, kaso niloloko po siya ng husband at dito pa sa house, same bed pa. You know, nawalan ako ng gana at bumaba respect ko sa kanya. Last time inuwi niya dito ‘yung girl. Kami ng kasama ko ang naghotel. My plan when I take my vacation is ‘wag na bumalik. Napamahal na sa akin ang bata. Where can you find a man who takes a three-week vacation with his family, pagdating rest lang ng konti, umalis, sinundo ‘yung girl. By the way OJT niya ‘yun kaso ang sakit, mga pinaglalaruan lang mga Pinay. Do I have to tell ba sa wife niya?

  Anonymous

  The question is, will the wife believe you? These are marital problems na hindi talaga natin dapat pinapakialaman. Pagsinabi mo at naghiwalay sila, sagot mo ‘yung anak nila? Matanda na ‘yung OJT, 23 years old na, alam niya na ginagawa niya, wala tayong magagawa kung may mga kababayan tayong nagpapagamit sa ganyan. If it will make you feel better talking to the OJT, pagsabihan mo, then go ahead, but that’s her life. If it’s against your morals na nakikita ang mga ginagawa nila, all you have to do is leave. Ang trabaho at personal na buhay pinag hihiawalay dapat para wala tayong napeperwisyong tao.

  

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