Chloe’s Inbox – You are given what you deserve

August 7, 2019

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  Good day DJ Chloe,

  I’m your avid fan and listener. Call me Krisha. About five (5) years ago I was in love with a gentleman named Gabby (secretly), he is my churchmate and became a friend. I begged and cried out to God na ibigay na lang siya sa’kin. Nagd-date kami but within four (4) months lang because something came up.

  A year later nagkaroon ako ng boyfriend. Kahit may boyfriend na ‘ko siya pa rin naiisip ko at umaasang magkikita kami ulit. Years past nagbreak kami ng boyfriend ko. And it was really a painful break up to the point that it led me to depression. At si Gabby naman ay kasal na this year lang at medyo masakit po. Maraming nagpaparamdam at gustong manligaw sa’kin. Sinubukan ko naman po at nagkakagusto din naman ako, but every time na magmemeet na kami nadi-discourage na po ako after. ‘Yung kapag may nakita na akong flaws nila ayaw ko na. ‘Di naman po mataas standards ko, mabilis lang po talaga ako madiscourage. Sa ngayon po may pinayagan na po akong manligaw, si Tristan but something caught my attention, ang name niya Gabby—kapangalan ng lalaking hiniling ko sana sa Diyos noon. Churchmate ko rin. He is also quiet, handsome, and gentleman at I think marami ding nagkakagusto sa kanya. Nu’ng nagkaroon kami ng event sa church namin volunteer kami pareho, panay tingin siya sa’kin at ina-approach niya ‘ko. In-add ko siya sa Facebook. DJ Chloe, I want him.

  I am praying for him, but this time iba na pinagppray ko na sana kung ‘di siya, alisin na lang ang pag-aassume ko na baka gusto niya rin ako. Wala pa siyang move eh. What should I do? Dapat ko po bang busted-in si Tristan to pray for Gabby at magwait sa sagot ni Lord? Every time I’m with Tristan si Gabby naiisip ko. DJ Chloe, please help I can’t tell this to my friends right now. I know my mind is in chaos and my heart is out of rhythm. I need an advice po. Thank you and God bless you, DJ Chloe.

  Love,

  Krisha

  Hi Krisha,

  Well the first Gabby, I think hindi kayo talaga meant to be. You dated, something came up, a year later you’re with someone else already and Gabby got married… so not meant to be.

  Now, there’s Tristan and the new Gabby.

  Tristan is pursuing you, but you like Gabby but not sure if gabby is also into you.

  If Tristan is always with you, then Gabby might be gentleman enough not to enter the scene kasi baka nga naman makagulo siya.

  What if wala ka munang entertainin na manliligaw and just be on your own, and wait for Gabby, the new Gabby, na lapitan ka? Give it some time, baka naman he is also taking his time, if a guy likes you, you will know. Lalapitan at lalapitan ka niyan para magparamdam. Hindi enough na tingnan ka lang sa malayo at akalain mo na na may gusto siya sa’yo.

  Si Tristan if he really likes you, he will wait until you’re ready.

  Buti ka pa problema mo ganyan. ‘Yung iba problema nila wala sa kanilang manligaw kahit isa.

  Don’t be stressed by these things. If you’re really praying for it, God will give you the right man who deserves you.

  

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