Chloe’s Inbox – There is nothing love cannot brave

August 8, 2019

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  Greetings DJ Chloe,

  I barely listen to the radio much but since I always commute to work from Makati to Alabang. I got hooked on listening to you and how you’ve given advice to other people. My husband and I have been married for 22 years now and our marriage has gone through its own ups and downs. We’ve both made so many mistakes to the point where we both agreed that having an annulment is one of the options to best settle our problems. Kahit na may problema kami sa relasyon namin, sinusustentuhan pa rin naman ng mister ko ang mga anak ko pagdating sa mga kailangan nila.

  My husband is an OFW sa UAE and we only get to see him either once a year or once every other year. Months have passed by and I have noticed that the financial support that my husband gives us is gradually becoming smaller. It wasn’t even enough to feed my children in a week, and it got to the point that he gives us nothing at all for months. I tried contacting him but as days passed, he never seemed to contact us back. We’ve been financially struggling, and my children has been missing their father and I thought to myself na baka iniwan niya na talaga kami. Tumagal itong problema na ito ng 12 months. I’ve been counting the days of my husband’s absence as a father and I’ve decided to file a case for annulment. I’ve signed the papers and all I need now is my husband’s signature. Until one day my sister-in-law called me saying that my husband is on his way home. I told her about my predicament with my husband she told me a shocking truth I had no idea about. My husband was in prison this whole 12 months at yung sustento na binibigay niya sa’min ay community service niya sa kulungan. Kapalit ay pera na ipapadala niya sa’min. Wala akong kalam-alam, DJ Chloe. I am in shock, I am torn and I am confused at habang sinusulat ko ito katabi ko ang papers ko for annulment. Itutuloy ko pa rin po ba ang annulment at ano po ang kailangan kong gawin?

  Best regards,

  Your now avid listener

  Hi Ma’am!

  I seriously believe all marriages have an acid test, and for marriages to survive there has to be God in between you both. Now you’re confronted with the truth that’s been hidden from you for so long, what are you going to do? Your husband maybe made a lot of mistakes, have hurt you and all, pero sabi mo dalawa naman kayong may mga pagkakamali. In spite and despite of him being in prison, and who knows what else ang mga pinagdaanan niya dun sa oblo knowing it’s an Arab country. He still managed na makapagpadala sa inyo, he was still thinking of you and the kids. And I believe it helped him survive the hell he was into. We don’t know why he ended up in prison pero napagbayaran niya na. Asawa mo naman siya, I’d say give him a chance. Maybe he is a changed man now. That’s for you to find out. Talk to him, ask him why, if he tells you the details then good. The mere fact he tried his best na makapagpadala thru his earnings sa community service at hindi niya pinaalam sa inyo kalagayan niya dahil baka nga naman mas lalo kayong mastress, nagpakaama pa rin siya. If he is now back and you see that he’s doing things to win you back and he is remorseful, give him a chance…for your kids.

  

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