Chloe’s Inbox – Always choose the kids first

September 20, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe!

  Ano po ba ang mas dapat piliin? Ang work o ang kids? May regular ako na trabaho at ang asawa ko. I have two kids. Isang three (3) years old at isang one (1) year-old. Nahihirapan kami sa magbabantay sa dalawa. Pasa-pasa ang mga bata. Dapat na ba ako magresign? Please enlighten me.

  Confused Momma

  Hi Confused Momma,

  Pasa-pasa na ang mga bata. So, what would it take for you to decide, na ikaw na muna ang mag-alaga sa kanila to ensure na hindi sila laging pasa-pasa?

  You know, I understand you also need to work. But work is something you can always find and go back to. Your kids? While you’re working, they’re suffering.

  Mukhang ‘di nakapagfamily planning, ano?

  There are jobs you can do now at home. If you don’t stop and take of them now that they need you the most, palagi kang nasa pedia, dear.

  Talk to your husband, kailangan kayanin niya magprovide mag-isa for the meantime, tutal kasama naman siya ng ginawa ‘yan.

  Kids won’t be kids forever. Alam ko ‘yan, I waited for years na lumaki ang mga anak ko para makapagtrabaho na rin. I’m blessed I have my parents who supported me and took care of them when I already needed to work.

  How about your parents? You can leave them sa kanila. JUST MAKE SURE MAY YAYA AT MAY PANG GASTOS (caps lock talaga).

  

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