Chloe’s Inbox – Battle scars are reminder that you survived

October 31, 2019

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  I wrote here already before. Now, just want to ask if it is a sin being bitter. Thought I don’t want to be like that. I’m thinking na ‘di maiwasan kasi it’s just almost a month since we broke up. I want to be happy na lang for him though we broke up na mahal pa ang isa’t-isa. Ang hirap magmove-on. Kahit anong libang sa saril, ‘yung akala ko tapos na at naiyak ko na lahat ‘di pa pala. Sariwa pa kasi talaga siguro ang one (1) month. Pero I can say I’m okay na rin naman kahit papano. I’m okay but I’m not good. How to avoid bitterness, DJ Chloe. God bless.

  Mary

  Hi Mary!

  Ang iba nga dekada na ‘di pa din daw makamove-on. Ikaw pa kaya, isang buwan pa lang? I don’t think it’s being bitter, I think it’s more of just sadness. And the memories of the good times na lagi mo pang naaalala. Kasi nga naman, one month pa lang. Give it time, dear.

  You know, time heals everything. So allow time to work on you and with you. And while doing so, continue with your life. One day you’ll wake up ‘di mo na siya naaalala, ‘di mo na naiisip. Just keep yourself busy, keep praying for the feelings to go away or ask God to remove any bitterness that you feel, kung meron pa man, and just forgive. And move on. Life is short to waste it on feeling sorry and feeling bitter. God wants us to be happy, and if He removed a certain person in your life, it’s for the best. Allow His plan for your life to happen. God bless.

  

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