Chloe’s Inbox – You don’t need validation from other people

November 12, 2019

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  I’ve been your avid listener for so long, so I take the chance to hear your advice. I’ve been married for 17 years but still my love for my ex still exist. Don’t know why until I used to stalked his Facebook every day and it makes me sad I look his pic with his family. It really broke me until now. I don’t know what to do, he’s the only person who make me feel like I’m a princess when we’re still together. Unlike my husband who never did. He’s not proud of me ‘cause I’m not beautiful and sexy. I’m fat and I’m not that pretty. So I decided to live in the past just to be happy, even it hurts. ‘Cause I know we can never be together again. I’m looking forward to your advice that would enlighten my mind. Thanks and more power to your program. Chelsea here.

  Hi Chelsea!

  I’m sorry you feel that way. But you know, no one can make you feel that way without your permission. Mahirap din talaga if you get that kind of treatment from someone whose supposed to be your avid fan and supporter and that’s your husband. Living in the past won’t help, dear. Baka gulo or eskandalo waiting to happen lang ‘yang ginagawa mo pag ‘di mo natiis ang pang-iistalk mo sa ex mo. Magmessage ka na bigla sa kanya and who knows what might happen next. You don’t need validation from other people, dear, to feel better. It starts with feeling better and liking yourself. Ano naman kung mataba ka? My daughter told me I look better when I gained weight kesa daw nu’ng ang payat ko, mas glowing daw ako ngayon, heheheh. Hindi ka daw pretty? Eh di papretty ka. Madali na magpaganda ngayon, dear. Uso ang make up noon pa. Work on your inner self, no matter what you do, if you don’t feel good within, it will really show in every angle of your face.

  

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