It’s Already On Me

January 5, 2016

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  Good Day, DJ Chloe!

  Please hide my identity. You can call me Andie. I know you are the right person to lean on to. I’m on a stage of moving on sa lalaking alam ko naman na sa umpisa pa lang ay ‘di na ‘ko sineryoso at alam ko rin na ginamit nya lang ako. Pero, DJ Chloe, bakit ang hirap-hirap makalimot?

  Bakit po hindi ako napapagod kahit lokohin ako ng paulit-ulit ng lalaking ito? Isang text lang galing sa kanya ay bumibigay ako, ‘di ko po mapigilan na ‘di magreply. My mind is very, very tired po but my heart keeps on beating for him. Gustong gusto ko na magpalit ng number pero nahihirapan ako.

  Gusto ko kasi maniwala na kaya pa niya magbago. I want to know po the best way or maybe the first step to leave in this horrible situation. Mahal na mahal ko siya kaso po pagod na ‘ko maghintay sa pagbabago niya. ‘Di ko rin masabi kung anong relationship merom kami. For three years bihirang bihira na magkita po kami pero sinasabi niya na he loves me pero wala sa actions niya. Once a week lang siya magtext. Simpleng “HI, INGAT KA PALAGI, I LOVE YOU,” that’s it ‘yun lang. Lately ganyan na kami. Parang naging cold siya simula nang madami akong nadiscover na flings niya. Pero bakit sa kabila ng pambabalewala niya, Dj Chloe, nandito pa rin ako para sa kanya. Naiinis na po ako sa sarili ko. Gustong-gusto ko ng makawala pero bkit ang hirap-hirap.

   

  Dear Andie,

  I’m sorry to tell you this but the problem is not this guy. The problem is you. You’re not level headed. You don’t use your head. Instead you make so much use of your heart which is hurting you a lot.

  Hindi na pinoproblema ang ganitong lalaki kasi marami silang ganyan. And even if magbago man ito baka kulubot ka na pag nagbago nga siya ng very, very slight.

  Your plight, your predicament is not new to me anymore. I have received a lot of the kind of letter you sent me. Women holding on to something that kills them every day.

  You yourself can’t say what it is that you have with him. He loves you probably if he has a need for you only and you know what those needs are that you “provide”.

  You ask me how to leave him? Simple, walk away. Just be gone. You won’t need any effort for this. You will only need to decide when to walk away for good…and then do it.

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

   

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