If You Won’t Ask

January 21, 2016

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  Hello DJ Chloe, can you please help me to decide on what I’m gonna do? My husband and I are married for seven years and we have two kids; a three-year old and one-year old.

  My husband works abroad since October 2015. I saw an intimate picture of him with a girl in Facebook. The girl was the one who posted the photo.

  I asked him about it and he confessed. Totoo daw po na gusto na niya kaming iwan. Sabi niya he’s alone at wala daw siyang iba. Sa galit ko po, minura ko po siya ng minura pati ‘yung nagpost ng photo.

  Now ayoko na po makipag communicate sa kanya kahit tumatawag siya at nagmemessage. Gusto ko po siya matuto sa ginawa niya. He felt sorry na–ewan po. Kaya please help me po. May sustento pa po mga anak ‘ko pero if hindi po siya magbibigay ng sustento p’wde ko po kaya siyang kasuhan? Thanks and I hope you can tell me what to do.

  Lady in Red

  Dear Lady in Red,

  Hello!

  Medyo naconfuse ako. He confessed about what? That it was him on the picture? And he said na gusto niya na kayong iwan, but now he is coming back?

  I understand that you were hurt. But if your husband is asking for a chance then maybe you can at least talk to him and find out what it is he really wants?

  Maybe a second chance or maybe he wants to be there for the kids and he has no intentions of not being a father anymore.

  Alam mo, dear maraming nareresolve sa simpleng pag-uusap at pagtatanong. So since he is your husband, I suggest that you try to find out what he wants. ‘Wag namang kaso agad dahil hindi mo pa naman talaga alam anong gusto niyang mangyari dahil hindi mo na nga kinakausap, ‘di ba?

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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