What’s The Best Kind of Kinky Sex?

March 31, 2016

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  Good evening, DJ Chloe,

  I’m your no. 1 fan. I wrote this letter because I can’t sleep. I hope you can give me a piece of your advice.

  May asawa po ako at tatlong anak. Masaya naman po ang pagsasama namin mag-asawa. Pero aaminin ko napagdaanan ko na din ang lokohin minsan at saktan ng sariling asawa ko. Pero tinanggap at pinatawad ko pa rin sa huli dahil nangako naman po siya na magbabago. For almost six years pinatunayan naman po niya ang pagbabago niya pero lately po nagulat ako nang naiwan niyang open ang Facebook account niya sa isa sa mga cellphones na ginagamit ko din po minsan.

  Nakita ko pong until now sine-search pa rin pala niya ‘yung girl. Ayoko na po sana na iconfront siya pero ‘di ako mapatahimik ng kalooban ko kaya kinonfront ko siya in a nice way. Nagsorry siya. Nacurious lang daw siya kasi one time nakasalubong daw niya yung cousin nu’ng girl and dahil sa curiosity niya sinearch niya po at hindi naman po daw ‘yung girl ang intensyon niya kundi ‘yung pinsan. Nacurious lang daw siya. Pinalagpas ko po pero after ilang days napapansin ko, every time na makikita ko siya na hawak niya ‘yung phone niya parang biglang tinatago. At dahil nacurious naman po ako, minsan pinakialaman ko ‘yung phone niya at nakita ko sa history ng browser niya na nag-oopen din siya ng Facebook dun at ang worse na kinagulat ko is palagi pala siyang nagvi-visit ng porn site.

  Sobrang nagulat ako kasi sa totoo lang po ang husband ko ay hindi ganun kahilig when it comes to sex. Sa aming dalawa nga po aaminin ko mas ako pa nga. Kaya sobrang nagulat ako at napaisip kung may ginagawa po ba na hindi maganda ang asawa ko kasi weekly lang siya kung umuwi from work. At ang mas lalo pa po skong napaisip kasi minsan nga hindi na siya talaga nag-aask sa’kin ng sex. Pero one time na nagsex kami nagulat ako parang may kakaiba kasi hindi naman po siya ‘yung dati na maraming alam pero ngayon nagulat po talaga ako na parang bakit parang may slam na siya at iba na. Sana matulungan niyo po ako sa gumugulo sa aking isip. Salamat, DJ Chloe. Hide my name po. Thanks!

  Kaye

  Dear Kaye,

  So dalawa po ba ang problema natin? Ang pagsearch sa ex at ang pagvisit niya sa porn site at pagbabago pagdating sa sexual intimacy niyo?

  I believe you have already settled the first issue. He apologized and told you it wasn’t the ex he was searching for on Facebook but the cousin.

  Now with regards to the changes, I’d like to look at it in two different ways or give you two reasons. Possible reasons for the changes you have observed.

  1. Maybe he is trying to be experimental to spice up your intimacy. Ask him if he is. Maybe you can join him explore. Besides, you two are married. Asawa mo naman ‘yan eh. I’m sure it wouldn’t be off or it wouldn’t shock you if he would communicate with you, right? And in the same way you also would communicate with him.

  I think, intimacy should be talked about openly. You need to let your partner know how you want to be touched and where you want to be touched. Same way na dapat you also know what works with him.

  2. Now this might be a little bothersome to you but I don’t want to discount the fact na maybe he is experimental with someone. Maybe may iba, maybe wala naman. And maybe the reason why he is trying new things is he learned from someone else.

  Anyways, I hope not. But you can try to find out if you really want to and for your own verification. But I would try to think of the first reason. I understand, maybe you’re also a bit inhibited when it comes to these things but would you rather want your husband exploring with someone else? :) I’m sure you don’t.

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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