Betrayal And Infidelity In Secrecy Is Still Betrayal And Infidelity

April 27, 2016

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  Hi DJ Chloe!

  Hi DJ Chloe call me “Pink Baby”. I’m so depressed now kasi para na kaming roller coaster ng hubby ko. We’re legally married and has one child. He’s working abroad. Since nag-cruise ship siya gumulo na ang buhay naming mag-asawa. At first, nasaktan ako ng sobra-sobra. I never thought na magagawa niyang mag-hanap ng babae and he’s always explaining na friends lang sila everytime nakakakuha ako ng pictures nila sa Bar and may kissing pa. Ibang lahi kasi yung babae at lagi niyang ini-insist yung ibang culture ng girl sa akin na kahit kiss wala daw malisya. Three times ko na siya nahuli with the same girl. Even the girl sent me a message na they are only friends and nothing happened between them, the kiss was just a kiss. Ang sakit DJ Chloe. Nagkabalikan kami after the second time na nahuli ko sila and this time ito na naman ulit. Ipinaliwanag niya sa akin na in-invite daw siya ng kasamahan nila para sa party at eksakto nahagip sila ng camera na nag-uusap, nilapitan daw siya ng girl at nangamusta. My issue na kasi sila kaya hindi ko maiwasan na hindi ako mag-isip ng ‘di maganda. Siya pa na nagalit dahil napaka-selosa ko raw at sumosobra na raw ako . DJ Chloe, gumawa ako ng ibang facebook account. Hiding my true identity and friends ko yung mga friends niya sa barko. DJ Chloe, he created another facebook account na may ibang name and yung unang profile picture niya ay yung silang dalawa ng girl and the girl also changed her profile picture with my hubby. Pinatawad ko siya hanggang sa pangalawang pagkakataon for the sake of our child. Akala ko okay na kami pero hindi pa pala they are secretly seeing each other. And now pinutol ko na communication namin and I never gave him a chance to explain again because I know that he’s only lying. Masakit na sa ulo at hindi ko na kaya ang ganito iba na tingin ko sa kaniya and I want to file a case against him kasi madami akong photos na nakolekta. DJ Chloe please advise me on what to do. I am so depressed and weak. I can’t take it anymore. Ginawa ko ang lahat.

   

  Dear Pink Baby,

  Kissing sa cheeks as in beso beso eh wala lang talaga dahil kultura na yan kahit hindi sa ibang bansa pati na rin dito sa atin. Pero kissing ? French kissing, torrid liplocked? Wala lang daw dahil kultura nila? Hahaha! Sabihin mo sa kaniya, okay kamo. Nice try. The signs are clear. As clear as the sun shining bright in the sky in a hot summer day. What is there to doubt? Tama yan. Go to the agency he is affiliated or connected with. Get help from OWWA or any government agency na pwede kang tulungan. Asawa ka! Kasal kayo! Pababain mo ng barko. File a travel ban for him! Unless? Siya ang bread winner and you can’t afford to let him lose his job dahil may mga anak kayong susuportahan. Now kung ayaw mo, get all of his allotment and let him rot in hell basta na sayo ang allotment! You need that for your kids! Find a job and start working. Nang di ka natatakot mawalan ng asawa dahil kaya mong mabuhay ng mga anak mo mag isa!

   

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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