Honesty Will Always Be The Best Policy

May 12, 2016

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  I know a lot of letters is coming to your inbox and I hope mabigyan mo po ako ng pansin.

  I’m Liza, married with two kids. A month ago my father-in-law died because of murder. It was really a tragic experience for the whole family especially to my husband. He keeps on telling me na he will find justice for his father. We keep on arguing regarding this matter kasi ayokong masira ang name at reputation niya.

  A week ago, nagpaalam siya sa akin for out of town business meeting, which he usually do monthly. Nalaman ko, DJ Chloe na hindi totoo ang business meeting na yon, and worst ‘yung plane ticket na pinakita niya sa’kin is fake. I inquired to airline hotline at hindi nag-eexist ang flight number. After that I kept on calling him, walang sagot at walang text kahit isa pero nagri-ring ang phone niya. Three days, DJ Chloe, para akong mababaliw kakaisip kung nasaan ang asawa ko, kung buhay pa ba siya or what. Iba’t iba na ang pumapasok sa isip ko, baka may kasamang ibang girl or tuluyan na akong iniwan. He left me hanging on the real situation. Then I called his mom pra sabihin ang nangyayari. And you know what, sabi niya sa mom niya nasa college friend lang daw siya nearby. So confirmed na niloko niya ‘ko. Ang masakit dun, DJ Chloe kahit isang text or tawag manlang na “hello, buhay pa ‘ko ‘wag kang mag-alala sa’kin” ‘yun lang sana okay na ‘ko kaso wala. After four days, he replied after I begged. Sinabi niya na matagal na daw niyang gustong hanapin ‘yung taong gumawa ng masama sa dad niya.

  Ang hirap ng paniwalaan DJ Chloe, pa’no na ‘yung mga next na out of town meetings niya, pa’no pa ‘ko maniniwala kung ganito ang ginawa niya sa’kin. Pa’no kung dahilan lang pala niya ‘yung dad niya pero ang  totoo may iba siyang kasama for four days. Please, please, enlighten me. ‘Di ko na po alam kung ano gagawin ko sa traumatic experience na ginawa niya.

  Thank you po

  Hello!

  Some people can be very insensitive, especially if nothing matters to them but the only thing they want done. I don’t know your husband, it’s only you who knows him. And for you to be having a lot of things in your head, other than his wanting to take matters in his hand regarding the murder of his father, eh may basis ka malamang sa mga duda mo. Nakakabaliw talaga ‘yan. And being lied to is the worst thing a husband can do because it will make you question all truths in the future. And that’s what’s happening now. You  can talk to him and tell him what you felt, how you felt, and how he made you feel with what he did. But don’t expect he will understand. Or you can investigate further and not take things sitting down, unless you want to go through another scenario again. Try to dig deeper, you might find something. :)

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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