God At The Center Of Your Relationship

July 8, 2016

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  Dear Mrs. M,

  This is what’s so hard about long distance relationships, about husbands or wives working abroad. Pero sabi nila, nasa sa’yo ‘yan. Well, I still believe that married couples should be together and try to make ends meet TOGETHER.

  ‘Pag malayo marmaing pwedeng mangyari. I’m not saying you have to guard your husband or wife 24/7. Pero ‘yun ngang nandito na nagkakaproblema pa. Nagkakar’on pa ng iba. How much more ‘yung malayo sa pamilya at nalulungkot?

  I feel really bad that this is happening to your family. I mean, I know you have all the dreams of having a good life, build a home, be stable, pero eto nangyari. At kasalanan niyong dalawa because you both decided to be away from each other.

  ‘Di ko alam sino ba dapat sisihin. Gobyerno dahil walang trabaho dito para sa lahat?  O ang mga mag-asawa na nagdesisyong maghiwalay pansamantala para daw sa mga bata pero ito ang napala?

  I don’t also know what happened to the nine years? Why people just throw away nine years or 15 years or even 20 or 30 years that way. I guess at the end of the day mahina pa rin ang tao talaga and we need our God to give us strength DAILY. For us to carry on, to survive, and to hang on.

  You told him na give up ka na? Did he agree to what you want? Because if he did, mapapagod ka lang lumaban. You can’t really come up with a solution if he is not cooperating.

  You can remain to be his wife and hold on to this marriage and exhaust everything you can do to save this marriage. Now after doing everything at wala na talaga. Then you have to seek legal means or ways to free yourself from him and from this nightmare. And while doing so, don’t forget to seek God’s help on this. He is telling you something. You need to listen to Him so you’ll know His guidance for you. Ang pagsasama ipinapanalangin ‘yan araw-araw. No marriage will ever work out without God.  ‘Yan ang alam ko at ‘yan ang napatunayan ko.

  

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