When It’s None Of Your Business…

July 21, 2016

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  Hello, DJ Chloe!

  Please hide my identity, I am one of your avid listeners and I’m always checking your page to read the messages of my co-listeners. I hope one day you will post my message.

  Ano po gagawin niyo ‘pag alam mong may ka-affair ang auntie mo who is already married? I know I don’t have the right to confront my auntie but I feel sad for her husband. Napag-usapan na namin ito dati. Pero ang sabi niya hindi ko daw siya masisisi dahil sa may pagkukulang daw ang asawa niya. I know it’s not a valid reason to cheat but after namin nag-usap wala na siyang contact sa guy. Then after a few months ito na naman at may kausap na naman siya lagi sa phone. And I am pretty sure na ka-affair niya ‘yun.

  Ano po ang dapat kong gawin? Confront ko siya, sabihin sa asawa niya, o dedma na lang? I really need your advice, DJ Chloe. Thanks.

  Ms. Wa,

  Hi, Ms. Wa!

  Biblically, we are instructed to correct people who are in sin. The Bible says, “if your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over.”

  So basically, you have done your part. You can continue reminding her about it but it is really your Tita who is to decided whether to continue or to stop.

  For now, since hindi pa siya na-eeskandalo or the husband doesn’t have any idea yet, masaya pa siya. But once the crap hits the fan, two things: she will think na sana nakinig siya sayo or iisipin niyang ikaw ang nagsumbong sa asawa niya.

  It’s more than enough that you told her to stop. Wala ka ng responsibility d’yan. ‘Wag kang umabot sa punto of telling her husband about it because eventually he will find out.

  

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