Heart Is All That Matters

July 25, 2016

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  I’m a big fan of yours! Kindly hide my identity or you can call me, Miss D. I’m 24 years old, my career is doing great. From being mahiyain, I tend to be competitive and invulnerable.

  I have a boyfriend. But, kahit alam ng lahat na may boyfriend ako, I’m having problems mostly with guys. Kahit ang panget na talaga ng approach ko sa kanila, they find it challenging. I consider myself na I’m not the ideal girl of a guy so I’m asking them, “Why me?” Bakit ba ako ang ginugulo nila? Mostly married guys pa ang nalapit saken. Ang sakit lang sa part ko DJ Chloe kasi,

  1. They are married.

  2. They have kids.

  3. Nakakagulo ng relationship.

  4. I’ve been stalked almost every day.

  ‘Di ko na alam anong approach na gagawin ko to stop their craziness. ‘Di ako maganda, daig ko pa malditang laitera. Haha. Kidding aside. Haaaay. I don’t know what to do na, DJ Chloe. Bakit ba may mga ganitong lalake? Why they can’t find happiness in their lives? A married man tries to impress another woman na dapat sa asawa nila ginagawa yun?

  Miss D

   

  Dear Miss D,

  Can I just burst your bubble? Alin ang masakit? Ang lapitan ka ng mga lalaki lalo na may asawa, despite of you thinking you’re not their ideal girl? Shouldn’t you be proud of that? That they find you attractive? Or shouldn’t you think otherwise? That maybe you give out signals which makes them think you’re okay with anything? I always believe that one shouldn’t sell herself if she doesn’t want to be bought J.

  You don’t know what to do? You just IGNORE. That’s it! Nag-eenjoy ka sa attention, yun yon. Kasi kung if these things don’t bother you, or these things don’t boost your ego, you won’t be here on my page just for this very petty thing. This isn’t even a problem. It will be a problem if you do something about it, like patulan mo. Or if not, they’ll be stalking you to the point of harassing you, that youre already scared of going out alone.

  As to your question, bakit may mga ganitong mga lalaki? n=Na may mga asawa na pero panay pa pa-impress sa iba? Kasi may mga babaeng na-uuto at na-iimpress sa mga walang ka kwenta-kwentang bulok na style nila. May mga babaeng mababa ang self-esteem na konting bola lang, eh naniniwala na. Kaya wag kang mag papabilang sa mga yun, ha? Putulan ng konti ang buhok teh’, umaabot na sa Star Flyer ng Star City ang pulupot! :)

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