No Doubts On Best Things

July 25, 2016

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  Hi, DJ Chloe!

  As I start the day habang nage-exercise sinasabayan ko ‘yung mga songs na pine-play niyo. Kaya namn naisip ko na i-share ang story ko. Simple lang ako at ang pangarap ko ‘yung mgkaroon ng masayang pamilya. And yet I’m a failure because not conceiving a baby really upsets me. I’m 31 now still couldn’t find what is God’s plan for me or my purpose. So this is my story…

  I’m living with an engineer. He is humble and has the courage to get through all the struggles, strive harder, and works best in his field. Judgmental people always get him under estimate him. They say ‘di sya yayaman sa prinsipyong ‘di sya mago-overprice para lang kumita. Kaligayahan niyang makita ang accomplishments niya at ang pagbigay kaalaman sa mga bagong engineers.

  He has four kids living with their mom and everyday pinupuntahan niya to check their studies and provide all their needs. I have never met his ex-wife. She haven’t talked to me anything about us-we don’t know each other. I, being the so-called MISTRESS, am not the usual kontrabida. I’m the one who is always making consideration. ‘Yung pinago-grocery namin sila pero ako wala. Mamimili kami ng sapatos nilang lahat at ako ‘di nagpapabili. ‘Di din ako humahawak ng malaking pera kundi pamalengke lang. I find it unfair pero ‘di namn kaya ng konsensya ko kung magbubuhay donya ‘ko at sila mukang kawawa. Dahil sa pang-unawa naman ‘di kmi nagkaproblema. What made me so confused is when people tell me na maghanap na lang daw ako ng iba, aasenso pa ang buhay ko. That also made me think that maybe I deserve someone better. Dapat ko po ba siyang hiwalayan? Thanks and I pray that I’d be able to seek your advice. You know best.

   

  Ms. “Mistress”,

  Dear!!!! Oh, you should listen to what others are telling you! And you know what, I’m not the only one who knows best, you too. You know why? Because God gave us permissive will. It’s something I read somewhere…

  It’s like this, you know food is good for your body. But if you over eat you’ll be obese, gets mo?

  Permissive will. You know he is married and he’s got kids to support but you’re still with him.  You chose to be with him, so why complain?

  As I’ve said, you should listen to what others are telling you. You’re single, probably you have a full life ahead of you and you have a good chance of finding a good man who deserves your unconditional love and understanding of situations, which you are giving to the wrong man. Imagine, how much your life will be better if you’re loving the right person?

  But if you love him to the moon and back, then go ahead and endure what must be endured without expecting anything in return. We only have one life to live my dear. If being with him is what completes you and your idea of what living life to the fullest, that’s fine. It’s only you anyway and your whole life to spend with him.

  But you have questions and you’re confused. If this is the best thing for you, you’ll never have any doubt about it. :)

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