You Need A Time Alone

September 19, 2016

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  Hi DJ Chloe!

  Please hide my name here. Just want to share my story. I’m 26 yrs old and in a live-in relationship with an old man. And he has a kid, almost 10 years old, and he’s not married. I met him through social media. For six months we were getting to know each other. I started to work in Manila and I met him. I’m totally down that time when I got to know him, totally no money, don’t know where to stay, until he asked me. I said that I had no permanent home to stay. He offered that I stay with him that’s why we live together now for almost one year and eight months. But DJ Chloe, months passed and every single day, I started to be disappointed, I don’t feel okay! Sorry but I met one guy who I felt perfect for me. We’re dating now for almost four months but he was very honest to me that he’s not ready for commitment , I accepted that but I’m hoping that he will change his mind because he told me that he really likes me. I felt bad and of course I got hurt. But it’s my choice to stay away from him after the last time we dated. After two weeks he sent me a text message asking what’s going on. I ignored him because I’m falling in love with him deeply. DJ Chloe, I would like to ask what should I do? Should I leave with my live-in partner and ignore and stay away with that person I fell in love with? I’m planning to be independent and love myself more. Thank you for reading my story and thank you for advice. God bless!

  Hello there!

  Sometimes the best things in life happen when you are ALONE. If you feel that you need to leave the older guy, then leave. Leave because it’s the right thing to do so you can have the chance to live on your own and be on your own and because there is no love. You both took advantage of each other. You, because you have nowhere to go and he offered help and shelter. Him, because he can provide for you temporarily. Wala kayong love or commitment or whatever. This other guy naman, gusto mo pero hindi ready magcommit sa’yo? Can’t you understand things yet? People change. Just like how the old guy changed to the point of disappointing you as days went by with him. This other guy will also disappoint you eventually kapag kasama mo na siya. So do yourself a favor. Siguro naman medyo nakabangon ka na, may trabaho? Or naghahanap ng trabaho, I hope. I’d say be on your own and let go of both men at ayusin mo muna ng mag-isa ang buhay at isipan mo.

  

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