Acceptance Is The Key

September 26, 2016

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  Hello DJ Chloe!

  Call me Mommy Isay. Nagmahal, nasaktan, nakinig sa Easy Rock. Nagmahal ulit ngayon, happily married na, blessed with an adorable child.

  Being genuinely happy and contented na in life possible pala na lahat ng pain brought by past heartaches never happen. My husband and I can openly talk about our past relationships. But there is one guy from the past that I don’t want to see or hear from or even talk to, or even talk about. I left the guy after realizing na ginagawa na niya akong “sugar girlfriend”, nakikipag kita lang tuwing payday ko at busy na palagi the rest of the week. Sabi ng asawa ko baka daw may feelings pa ako for the guy. Sa pagkakaalam ko I am over and done with him.

  Hindi kaya nagseselos lang ang asawa ko? Because the past relationship lasted almost a decade. And we’ve only been together for four years. And I always assure naman my hubby that I love him every day by action and saying I love him and good things too. Kindly share your thoughts. Thanks.

  Dear Mommy Isay,

  Feelings? I can say wala na. Hatred meron pa, ang dami! Bonggang dami! I feel you, teh! Hahahahahaha!

  You hate him for what he did to you, na medyo matagal mong na ealize dahil umabot ng isang dekada na ginawa ka niyang sugar girlfriend. :)

  Nakakainis talagang isipin na may lalaking pinagkagastusan mo, ikaw nagbibigay ng load, or ikaw naglo-load matext ka lang, ikaw nagbibigay ng pamasahe makipagkita lang sa’y, hahaha. Ikaw madalas bumubunot kapag kakain kayo sa labas. From Jollibee to Italianis. Hahahaha! At siguro ‘pag payday mo, paparinggan ka na gusto niya ng Nike na sapatos o kaya G-shock na relo kasi alam niya naman ‘di mo pa kaya ang Omega.

  A lot of men these days are like that. Meron pa namang mangilan-ngilan na hindi kinakaya ng pagkalalaki nila na bumubunot ang babae. Pero endangered na sila. ‘Yung iba taken na, ‘yung iba naman lalaki din ang gusto.

  Some men these days, in fact  look at your capacity to earn money too, marami rin na gusto nila mas kumikita ka ng malaki. Ewan ko nga ba kung bakit sa panahon ngayon some women have bigger balls na than men.

  Siguro once and for all, explain to your husband that it’s not because you still have feelings for him but you still can’t find it in your heart to probably forgive, not him, but YOURSELF by allowing yourself to be used by him.

  I think, when the time comes na natatawa ka na lang sa katangahan mo sa buhay mo, ‘pag natanggap mo at nakakatawa ka pagnaaalala mo na naging sugar mommy ka. That’s the time you can say that you have moved on already from the traumatic experience of being a sugar momma. :)

  You’re lucky nakawala ka sa kanya. See, you need to let go of the wrong person talaga so you can finally be with the right person God intended for you to be with. :)

  

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