Get Married Because Of Love

October 4, 2016

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  Good afternoon DJ Chloe.

  May I ask your advice. It’s about love life. It started like this. I met this American guy online, we talked, and started planning about the future. Pumunta po siya dito early next year base sa napag-usapan namin. Naghahanap po talaga siya ng asawa. He’s living with his seven year old son, single siya, 51 years old at mabait naman po siya. May plano na po kami na pagpunta niya magpakasal at magsama sa US. Pero naguguluhan po ako kasi ‘yung friend ko from Korea ay may binigay sakin na guy na 47 year-old na naghanap ng Pinay. Seryoso na papakasalan ako pagpunta niya dito sa December. At alam ko po na gagawin talaga niya ‘yun. Alam ko pong pareho ko silang ‘di pa nameet. Pero ‘di ko po maiwasan na maguluhan sa ngayon. By the way, si Korean po pala ay ‘di masyado mag-english kaya mejo may language barrier kami.. Ano po talaga at sino ang dapat kong piliin? Dapat po ba sa ngaun pa lng ay pipili nko? Sana po matulungan niyo ‘ko.

  Alice

  Dear Alice,

  Ang pag-aasawa ay hindi parang damit o sapatos na ‘pag may “ibinigay” sa’yo eh p’wede na.

  Do you even feel any love for any of the two men involved? Marry a man ONLY if you love him enough to live with him and all his flaws.

  Hindi lang language barrier ang magiging problema mo. You will also have to deal with the culture and the upbringing of any foreigner you choose to marry.

  I don’t have anything against our foreign friends and those Pinays who have chosen to marry a foreigner but if you will marry love should be the reason why you’re marrying someone. Be it a foreigner or not at hindi ang makaahon sa kahirapan. Men are not financial plans my, dear.

  Think about it.

  

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