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July 30, 2015

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  Hi Dj Chloe

  I am Jam, 21. I’m in a six-year relationship with my first boyfriend. In that six year, many times we broke up because of third party. But because I love him I always accept him until we reached six years. We’re okay with our families and they want us to get married

  I went to Manila for work and he was left in our province. But after two months I got to know that he got another girl already. I went back to our province and he told me that he doesn’t love me anymore. He fell out of love. It’s so painful. Our families still want to settle things between us but he’s not happy with me anymore; that’s why I let him go. Everything’s not easy for me. It’s not easy to move on.

   

  Dear Jam,

  Moving on na ‘yan. It’s a process. You go through crying spells. A lot of crying, denying, trying, holding on, begging, and then crying again. Until you reach accepting. You’re only 21 there are more to come.  Someone broke your heart now, there will be others who will still break your heart and some of them will break your spirit. As you grow old and mature you will learn to decipher people who deserves you and your tears. For now, enjoy your youth, love yourself and make something out of yourself. When you’re successful ikaw na lang ang pipili ng lalaki, promise ‘yan. Men like successful women, men like independent women, men like to chase women who shows them they don’t need them. Mas gusto ng lalaki ang babaeng alam nilang hindi sila kailangan. Men like women they can’t just figure out. Yes, submissive women are a delight to any man but not all men deserve a submissive woman keep that in mind. Don’t give your pearls to the pig.

  Chloe

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