Chloe’s Inbox – “I love him but he is so suffocating”

February 7, 2020

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  How do I handle my boyfriend’s possessiveness? Three (3) years na kami. I love him but his sobrang pagkaseloso is getting into my nerves. To be honest, I have stopped going to night outs or coffee dates with my girlfriends kasi ang reason niya, I don’t need to do that anymore dahil nandyan na daw siya. Nu’ng una okay lang sa’kin, but us women, you know we also long for a girl thing convo with our friends. Napapansin ko na unti-unti na akong nawawalan ng kaibigan. I love him, but he is suffocating. Cool off kaya ang solusyon?

  Thanks,

  Therese

  Hi Therese!

  Well, you just have to tell him he is….suffocating. Cool off will do, but are you ready if magdownhill sa break up ‘yan? Minsan nagiging cause ng strain at hiwalayan sa relasyon are little irritating things that pile up. Pero lahat naman nadadaan sa maayos na usapan, kausapin mo na lang, minsan may mga tao na akala nila ang relasyon eh silang dalawa na lang palagi. We also need to be with our friends, my time is also important, otherwise you’ll lose yourself and end up really suffocated. Ipaintindi mo na lang sa kanya na may mga bagay na ‘di niya maiintindihan, tulad ng anong foundation ang babagay sa olive skin tone? At ano kayang bagay na red lipstick sa’yo, cool red or warm, hahahaha! Good luck, girl!

  

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