Chloe’s Inbox – Someone is willing to hurt you just to feel better

January 26, 2020

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  I hope you’re at your best! Thank you for your segment, I have a chance to air my angst without being known to everyone kung sino ako. I am in my early 30’s, and I just recently left my three-year boyfriend. Napamessage lang ako sa’yo kasi siguro nalulungkot ako, I must admit namimiss ko siya. Kaya lang ‘pag naiisip ko na niloko niya ako, nagagalit pa rin ako sa kanya. Hindi niya alam kung ano talaga ang reason kung bakit ako nakipaghiwalay sa kanya. But what he doesn’t know is nu’ng one time he left his phone while he was buying some food (naiwan niya sa kotse) I tried checking his phone. For some reason walang password kasi siguro ‘di niya naisip na p’wede kong tingnan. And there I saw with my own two eyes, that he has been chatting with other women at inaalok niya to have sex with him! Pagbalik niya ng kotse nag-alok na ‘kong umuwi and told him I’m not feeling well. Until now hindi ko pa rin sinasagot ang mga calls and texts niya. Tinext ko lang siya na tapos na kami at wag nya na akong guluhin pa. Tama ba DJ Chloe and ginawa ko? Kailangan ko pa rin ba siyang harapin at makipaghiwalay ng maayos? Thank you for your advice.

  Kim

  Hi Kim!

  Kung ikakatahimik mo, yes, at para alam niya rin kung bakit. But be ready for all the lies, sana nagscreenshot or pinicturan mo para may ebidensya ka. Consider yourself blessed dahil nalaman mo ano ang totoo. Maybe it’s wrong to meddle with someone’s phone, but if not for your meddling, niloloko ka pa rin niya hanggang ngayon at hindi mo nalaman ang totoo. Ingat-ingat din kayo sa mga kotseng may dash cam, baka ‘di niyo alam nagre-record ‘yung audio. Kung okay lang sa’yo na ‘wag na siyang harapin, okay lang naman din, para sa’kin. You can always walk away from anything that threatens your peace of mind and anything that hurts you. No closure is already closure. But mas mabuti rin ipaalam mo sa kanya kung bakit.

  

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