Head over heart

September 28, 2015

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  Hi DJ Chloe!

  I just want to share my love story. I have a Chinese businessman boyfriend but he has a family. We’re together for almost two years. We lived in together and I got pregnant but he had the baby aborted because he’s too old for it. He’s 59 and I’m 32. I did everything to save the baby before he convinced me to have it aborted. He threatened me that he’ll leave me if I won’t agree with him. I was afraid because I love him. When his family got to know about it he sent me back to Taiwan. For the first two months, we still had good communication. But eventually it was cut because his family prohibited him from doing so. The last time he answered my call he’s already breaking up with me.

  I can’t accept that he’s already over us. I sacrificed my baby because I believed his promises. I decided to go back in the Philippines even if I just stayed here in Taiwan for four months. I want to end this misery. I want to shoot myself in front of their house for him to know what he did. Give me some advice. I can’t control my emotions anymore.

  Miss D

   

  Hi Miss D,

  I hope I am not yet late and I really hope and pray na hindi ka pa nakakauwi ng Pilipinas para gawin ang mga plano mong pagbaril sa harap mo sa harap ng bahay nila. Seriously, I don’t know whether I should see you at the airport pagdating mo para bigyan ka ng pang gising na bigwas! Do you seriously think that if you kill yourself in front of any of them, at their doorstep, it will change everything? You know what they’ll do if you do that, they’ll ask for the police to come over to report a crime, they will probably say you got so obsessed with your boyfriend and have your kalat cleaned up. S’yempre magsasabugan dun ang utak mo kung magbabaril ka, ipapalinis nila ‘yun. And what does that make you? Someone who ended up 6 feet below the ground. Just like what you did to your child, my goodness, some people are fighting for their lives! Go to the hospital find people who are living on medications and they will tell you to trade life for just one day so you will know how it feels to face death everyday! I hate it that you are telling me how hopeless you are right now JUST BECAUSE OF A MAN? Were you not loved enough by your parents para manglimos ng pagmamahal sa isang manggagamit na tulad ng lalaking ito? Women who enter this kind of relationship being the other woman should be ready to be ditched anytime! The man is freakin’ married, what do you expect? Only 1 or 2 out of 100 women ang nanalo sa asawa at the end of the day. Lalo na kapag may sakit na ang lalaki. Uuwi ng asawa ‘yan para dun magpa-alaga. Mas’werte ka kung talagang iwanan n’yan ang asawa niya para sa’yo. Because a married man telling you he loves you is losing his mind. And that makes the two of you losing your mind if you believe he will leave his wife for you. Iilan lang ang nagwawaging babae against sa asawa. The rest losers. So if you will be in this situation, by all means be prepared for anything either you get him or not. If you don’t then LIFE GOES ON! I feel sorry for your child, ni hindi mo naipag laban. Alam mo bang mas masarap ang may anak kesa sa asawa? But it’s done and over with. Please, for your own sake, aysuin mo na sarili mo at buhay mo. You have already wasted so many years of your life all for the glory of one selfish man. This time p’wede sarili mo naman mahalin mo? Napaka sarap mabuhay kasama ang TAMANG TAO na nakalaan para sayo. Stay put, fix yourself and wait for the right person to come. He won’t come unless you are still so hang up with the wrong one. Good luck.

  -Chloe

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