If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be

September 14, 2015

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  Hi DJ Chloe,

  It’s me again Ms. J, if you still remember. I was the unhappily married woman to a seaman and had an affair, got pregnant and then decided to part ways with the guy because I found out he was also betraying me. Anyway, it’s been five months since we saw and talked. One day I sent him a text message asking how he was. I was using a different number then and he replied, “who’s this?” I replied and said my name. He didn’t reply back. I called him and he answered but when he heard my voice he dropped my call and turned his cell phone off. I tried to contact him just to know how he was and for him to know that I’m not mad at him anymore even if he cheated on me. I want to be friends with him again. I just can’t contain walking around the subdivision and disregarding him. Was sending him a text message a wrong move?

  Hi Miss J,

  Seriously? You want to be friends with him? From what I know and experienced, you can never be friends with someone who has betrayed you. Friends? Or is it something more? Why do you still have to complicate your life? I know he is the father of the child you are carrying right now and maybe you still want to remain in contact with him for the sake of your child. But you didn’t choose to part from your husband. I think it’s time for you to put your feet down and tell yourself that “even if I screwed up I can still fix what’s coming ahead IN MY LIFE.” Let him be. He is obviously not into you and doesn’t want to get involved with you anymore. And seriously, it’s okay to be mad at him because he literally just took you for a ride. Some men really loves to get involved with married women. You know why? Because when you get pregnant they can just ignore and believe you also still has a husband who will also think the baby is his and he can go scot free! It’s very mean but I heard that coming from a man. So please, once and for all tigilan mo nang lumapit at maglaro ng apoy. Pasong-paso ka na, ‘di ka pa umaaray. Good luck.

  -Chloe

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