Just “another one”?

November 11, 2015

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  Hello, Ms. Chloe!

  Hingi po sana ako ng payo or advice. Sana po matulungan niyo ako. I have a “Facebook” boyfriend since last year. Nawala siya sa Facebook at sa Skype na lng po kami nag-uusap everyday. Then finally he came to see me in person last November 2 until November 4 dahil may business trip po siya dito sa Pilipinas. After he stayed with me, he went to Cebu because that’s where his really heading  with his partner. Sabi niya bago siya umalis “I’ll be back and I’ll see you later, baby.” When he was on Facebook madami po siyang girls at naging girlfriend. Isa na dun si Ms. Cebu.  ‘Yun po ang lagi naming pinag-aawayan. Sabi ko sa kanya, what if magkita sila sa Cebu? Sabi niya hindi kasi hindi niya alam kung anong itsura niya at ayon sa source niya nabaliw at may Aids daw ‘yung girl kaya nakampante naman po ako. Sunday afternoon I checked the girl’s Facebook and the profile picture is at the hotel and I recognized his luggage! Tama po ba hinala ko n kasama niya ‘yung girl? Until now hindi pa din online sa Skype boyfriend ko. Sana po mabigyan niyo ako ng advice. Thank you and more power! I’m so stressed at hindi ko na po alam kung anong iisipin ko.

  Shadow

  Dear Shadow,

  Foreigner ang boyfriend mo? And based on your story he has a lot of women on Facebook? So may history na siya? Bakit nawala ang Facebook niya? ‘Di kaya sa paningin mo lang nawala ang FB niya? Baka may iba ng account? if you’re saying the luggage you saw on the girls Facebook wall is his luggage, then save it on your phone, screenshot it. And if he happens to really come back in Manila and see you again, since he promised to see you again “baby”, show the picture you saved and ask him if it was indeed his luggage. He is your boyfriend for a year and you saw him first personally last November 2 and stayed with you until Nov 4? Stayed with you? I hope naman medyo nagpakipot ka muna. I will be very blunt with you, if hindi na bumalik to see you again chances are wala ng babalikan pa sa’yo. Ano ba pinanghahawakan mo? Promises? Words? Words are cheap at ang pinakamadali sa lahat ay mangako. For now, waiting game ka. If he ever see you again, confront and it’s really up to you if you will believe him or not because honestly I can’t tell a man’s honesty in a span of November 2 to 4 only. Come to think of it, CEBU talaga ang destination. Then ang karibal mo Ms. CEBU. ‘Di ba parang sobrang “coincidence”? I hope Ms. Shadow you don’t find yourself being just “another one”.

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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