Nothing to fear

August 4, 2015

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  Dear DJ Chloe,

  I’ve been keeping this problem a month now. My 5-year partner just told me that he doesn’t love me anymore and accused me of having another man, which is not true.

  May nabasa po kasi siya Facebook na ang tawag sa’kin ay “Beb”. I told him that it’s a gay friend of mine and also in a relationship. All along I thought that we’re already okay hanggang sinabi niya na hindi niya na ‘ko mahal. We have three kids and the youngest is 8 months. I don’t know what to do. He even told me that he’ll look for another woman and build a new family. I am trying my best for us to settle things but he told me that if I force things, he’ll be away and I won’t get to see my kids anymore. I am still affected because I love him. Kinausap na siya ng mama at papa niya pero buo na ang desisyon niya.

   

  Hello!

  Where is this Gay friend of yours? Go and get him and iharap mo sa kanya. Tell your gay friend that your family’s future is at stake because of this “beb”. Iharap mo sa asawa mo para sabihin sa kanya ang totoo. What bothers me is that your husband doesn’t know much of your friends para pag-isipan ka ng ganyan? I think once you’re married you have to set boundaries so you won’t have issues like this. It could be that your husband is pounding on this issue so he has reasons to leave you making it look like it’s your fault. If your conscience is clear then you have nothing to fear. If his issues against you has basis then you have a problem. Sa observation ko men go through this “baliw” stage. Mahuhumaling sa ibang babae to the point na iiwan pamilya nila ang iba nagsisisi, babalikan ka ang iba naman paninindigan na kabaliwan nila. Ang casualty, mga anak. Kung ayaw n’ya na kamo say’o p’wes ayusin n’ya na lang kung papano kayong mag-iina. You just got your act together. Think straight and gather all your strength. Dahil pag nag tuloy-tuloy ‘yan, I’m telling you, you’ll be left alone with 3 mouths to feed. Pray for enlightenment ng asawa mo. While doing so try to dig deeper baka matagal may karelasyon at nabutasan ka kaya ginawang rason para maka alpas sa’yo.

  Chloe

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