People Won’t Change Unless It’s Their Time To

October 16, 2015

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  Hi Dj Chloe,

  I’m a mom of a two-year-old and my kid’s dad and I were just 10 months together again after having a five-year problem. But the problem now is naka log in kasi sa’kin ‘yung Facebook account niya. So nu’ng umuwi ako sa Quezon City nagpop-up ‘yung convesation nila ng isang girl. The night before ng birthday ng anak namin ay magkasama sila and nu’ng pinrintscreen ko ‘yun at sinend ko sa kanya dinedeny niya. Minsan ‘di ko maisip kung tama bang binalik ko siya sa buhay ko o kung ano ba ang dapat kong gawin. Sabi nga, one lie is enough to question all truth. Ano ba ang dapat kong gawin?

  Sunshine

  Dear Sunshine,
  What was the conversation about? Was it something like he is still with someone else? Positive ba sa conversation nila na sila pa? Dahil mag kasama sila the night before the birthday of your child? Five years kinaya mo mag-isa? Nawalan ka ng sakit ng ulo for five years, tama ba ako? Yes, masarap ang kumpleto ang pamilya pero minsan kahit anong chance ang ibigay mo sa isang tao, there are just people who would never change unless it’s time for them to change. If you’re reasons for accepting him back to your life is to have a family that’s intact, complete, then decide to be deaf and blind to his shortcomings and pray for him to change. You know him better and you know what’s best for you and your kids. Ang mga anak at NANAY ay isang kumpletong pamilya din naman eh, ‘di ba? Kung ‘di mo tinanggap ‘yan ulet, wala ka sanang sakit ng ulo ngayon.

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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