Stop it before it happens

October 28, 2015

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  Hi Dj Chloe,

  Hihingi lang po ako ng advice. May boyfriend po ako and almost 10 months na kami pero hanggang ngayon nagkakatext pa rin sila ng ex niya. Hindi naman po niya nililihim sakin na nagtetext sila at pag tinatanong ko kung ano pinaguusapan nila, sabi niya nagkakamustahan lang naman daw sila. Hindi ko kasi nababasa ng buo ung conversation nila kasi ung iba eneerase na niya at nauusap sila sa lengwaheng Waray. Lagi naman niya sinasabi na mahal na mahal niya ako pero nasasaktan pa rin ako. Ano po bang dapat kong gawin? Need ko po ng advice please. Thanks! Lagi po ako nakikinig sa inyo.

  Ms. Karen

  Why miss Karen? Aren’t you good enough to talk to at naghahanap pa ng ibang kausap ang boyfriend mo? At ex niya pa? Most of their conversation is Waray so you wouldn’t understand? I find it very unethical and if he has nothing to hide, why would he delete some of the messages? It’s not good to pretend you’re okay when it’s really inflicting. You need to say what needs to be said, NEEDS TO BE SAID! Tell him you are not comfortable that he is still talking to his ex because he has you. He can talk to you about anything under the sun. If he loves you enough, he will understand it. If you really love a person, you don’t do things that you know will hurt the person you ‘say’ you love, right? Now if he doesn’t stop, the crazy side of me will tell you this: Find an ex boyfriend and be textmates with him. If he react, ask him how it feels? Mahirap niyan kung dedma siya.  Take the cue from there, he doesn’t care about you and what you do.

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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