Your Decision

October 30, 2015

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  Good day Ms. Chloe!

  Narinig ko ‘yung tungkol sa letter sender mong may asawang drug addict. Medyo nakarelate po ko kasi sa pagkakaalam ko, two yers nang nagda-drugs ang asawa ko at sabi niya nagstart lang daw po siya after mamatay ‘yung anak namin. Napakasakit po kasi samin nu’ng pagkawala ng baby namin. Lagi po kaming nag-aaway kasi wala daw po ‘kong tiwala sa kanya at nabubwisit na daw siya kakatanong ko. Thrice na rin po siyang nangangako na titigil na siya, kaya naman daw niya. Ayaw niya kasing magparehab eh. Nakakatrauma na po ‘yung mga nangyayari samin. Hindi ko alam kung hanggang kailan ko siya bibigyan ng chance magbago. Ayoko siyang iwan kasi baka lalo siyang mapariwara. Ako na lang ang meron siya. Patay na rin parents niya, ‘yung ate at dalawa pamangkin naman niya nasa abroad at wala ng pake sa kanya. Sa totoo lang, kung isip lang pagaganahin ko, ayoko na. ‘Di ko na po talaga alam gagawin ko.

  Mrs. Problematic

  Hi Mrs. Problematic,

  If you love your husband and you believe that you should stand by him in this time that he needs you, then no one can judge you with your decisions. For as long as you feel it in your heart that it is the right thing to do, then do it. You know your husband better, right? So do what you think is best. That should be the basis of your decision. No one can judge you. If you stay because you u feel it, it is right to stay. And no one can judge you if you leave, it’s your life. Ikaw makikisama, hindi ang sino pa man. But you have to know that you can’t do it alone. You need professional help. You need support and you need to give him a lot of understanding. And if he really wants to change, he also needs to be willing to change. If you have all the patience, go for it. I just hope hindi pa siya violent because sa’yo din magiging violent ‘yan. Mahirap talaga ang buhay may asawa. Minsan pinapatay ka na, hindi ka pa maka wala lalo na pag sobrang mahal mo. Pray for him a lot and pray for change. Prayer move mountains, you know.

  Sincerely,

  Chloe

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