5 Types Of Heartbreakers

Camille Obispo, Intern

April 12, 2017

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  Pain is inevitable, and the most cliché type of pain we can acquire is through breakups. It is one of the most horrible thing that a person has to go through in his/her life. If things are real between the two people involved in the relationship, it would be hard for both of them. However, there are cases when the feelings are not mutual, and pain is carried by one person alone; while the other one turns into a completely different person.

  1. THE CLOSURE-GIVER

  These is the type of heartbreaker who gives closure to a relationship or at least end things properly. From the explanation why they have to leave — to telling their partner that things will work out eventually, they have it all written down. This kind of person will tell you everything just to get out flawlessly in the relationship which they seem to cherish at first. They may appear like they care about how you would feel after they broke up with you, or maybe they’re just wiping the slate clean so that their conscience won’t bother them.

  2. THE VANISHING ONE

  “Goodbyes are the hardest” is their motto in life. These are the type of people who would not even bother to say goodbye or end the things up with their partners. Nobody likes to have The Vanishing One as their partner because they would leave you asking whether to hold on or let go. You’ll just wake up one day, surprised with the reality that they found a replacement to take your place in their lives. Or worst, they are “just” gone.

  3. THE TYPICAL A**HOLE

  They just won’t care whether you will get hurt or not. They would say what they want or sometimes, even deprive you of the real reason why they want to get out of the relationship. This may sound like some heartbreaker type of movie cliché but this kind really exists and they walk among us. So be careful, sweetie pie. You may not notice that you’re getting played by one.

  4. THE FRIENDLY ONE

  They are running for Mr./Ms. Congeniality in life. They are the ones who offers friendship even after they ended things up with their partners. They must have loved the movie “Paano Na Kaya” for they have adopted the line “If you can’t save the relationship, at least save the friendship” made famous by Melissa Ricks. It’s up to you to decide whether or not to accept the friendship they are offering, but do put yourself first. Ask yourself “would it be healthy for me if I’d still choose to be friends with him/her after the break-up?”

  5. THE LOST ONE

  “I need to find myself first” is their mantra in life. Their main reason for breaking up is that they need to find themselves first before getting into a deeper relationship. They may have added the infamous line “It’s not you, it’s me” that makes you go “Of course it’s not me”.

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