4 Unfair Things To Every Person Who Is Always Naninindigan But Never Pinanindigan

Adi Miguel

September 29, 2017

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  When you know that you’re the only one who’s into the relationship. When you know that you’re not really meeting halfway. When you know that you’re the only one this relationship and everything is just okay with you then maybe it’s time to know that it’s unfair.

  

  1. It’s unfair when what you have is his/her secret. It’s like you are his/her secret. You’re not asking that the world knows that you’re an item. But you just want to hear it from his/her mouth that you have something special. Because if it’s you that they’ll ask, you’ll tell them straight what you have and what you feel. It’s unfair that you do not have the same answer to the question about your connection. It’s unfair. You’re always “akin” but never mo ‘ko inangkin.

  

  2. It’s unfair when you’re still stuck with the label “friends” when everybody knows that you are not. How come you are friends but you’re so clingy to each other, you hold hands, and act like a couple? Friends don’t do that. But you can’t really let go because you’re afraid to lose the person. You’re afraid that one day everything between you will just drift. So, you’re just okay with the process, okay with the flirting, okay with the label. Always nilalandi but never jinojowa. 

  

  3. It’s unfair when you’re all okay with your family and friends but you don’t know any person from his/her side. Or if you know people related to him/her you can count them using your left hand. Yep, that few. And even his/her parents already know that you exist, he/she can’t introduce you because you can’t find the “perfect timing”. That lame excuse! It makes you think if you’re not good enough to be liked by his/her family. Or there are situations also where you get to know that his/her parents just don’t like you even if they haven’t met you. You’ve been fighting about this and you’ve been together for so long but you can’t just resolve this issue. Always lumalaban but never pinaglalaban.

  

  4. It’s unfair when you just can’t PDA. You don’t want too much of it. You just really want a little bit of PDA on social media or in real life but he/she doesn’t want the attention it gets. Even if you need that affection and appreciation he/she is not that willing to compromise. It made your friends think that you love that person more than he/she loves you. Everyone just thinks that you’re the only one who’s into this thing. You’re the only one who is proud of what you have. Well, maybe your partner just wants a discrete relationship and you understand that. But not to the point that he/she doesn’t satisfy the affection anymore. A like or a comment on your post about you, guys, won’t hurt, right? Relationships are about compromise sometimes, we have to deal with that. So, you’re like that girlfriend/boyfriend who is always humaharot but never hinaharot back. Ouch.

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