5 Things We Learned About Our Gay Friends

Adi Miguel

February 23, 2016

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  Wait, this write up will not encourage you to get into any relationship with the same gender. No, it is not forcing you to try. But just in case the universe rearranges your love life stars, you’ll know the things to consider why same sex relationship is worth a try.

  1. BECAUSE GAYS ARE CREATIVE

  Behind those appealing commercials, cosmetic and fashion trends, television shows with high ratings, effective marketing strategies, taglines with recalls, and the like, are most of the time gays. The creative industry is made up of gays with color-filled souls. The rainbow is really for them.

  Their souls are colorful and it radiates in their works. And so as in their relationships.

  They can make poems for you and immortalize them, Juan Miguel Severo  for example. Sing songs for you that it becomes your life song just like Sam Smith. Take photos of you and create eternal memories, BJ Pascual does that. They make use of what is on hand to pass on happiness and love. They have countless strategies to make you smile.

  2. BECAUSE GAYS ARE OPEN-MINDED

  No, not for networking or business.

  You can talk to gays about anything under the sun without a pinch of awkwardness. They want honesty and they will give you one without getting hurt or offended. You don’t have to sugarcoat, you don’t have to be smart, you just have to be you. They understand where you are coming from. They do not judge, they just believe you. It’s okay if you talk too much and it’s okay if you just want silence. They understand.

  3. BECAUSE THEY ARE FUN AND LOUD

  In this highly critical world, gays are your positive pills–the life of every situation. They can turn negative things to positive ones. They are the rainbow after the rain and even while there’s storm. They are your Dory who tells you “just keep swimming”, and who will tell you to seize your days, whether you’ll do something stupid or not, because YOLO.

  4. BECAUSE THEY KNOW AND UNDERSTAND RESPECT

  Ironically, gays are the bunch of people the society gives comment to without holding back but they are the bunch who respects you first. You do something stupid, you say something reckless, it’s okay. Because they understand that you have your own opinion. They get it when you want space, when you want to do your thing, when you want to pursue your dreams, when you prioritize other stuff, when you love yourself more, they respect all these and all that’s in your list which are undeclared.

  5. BECAUSE IT’S ALL ABOUT LOVE

  Genuine love  it is!

  This is where they are coming from and that is why they are worth the try, worth the risk. It all boils down to love. Always love.

  This is the very reason why they wake up every morning, the very strength they have. Love for friend, for family, for partners, for humanity, for arts, for nature, for life. This is what keeps them living and fighting. This is what they are pushing for years now…just love.

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